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PLEASE GIVE ME SINCIER ANSWER...... We both are from belongs to same cast. From India & from religious family. We got engaged & soon geting married. It's a Love marriage from his side & arrange frm my side. He Loves me so much. Before our engagement by his own he told me about his past that he had 2 / 3 puppy love but I am his True Love & now he really want to seteled down & won't do anything that hurt me. He told me that when he was abrod he had a Girl friend & they used to go for outing & they were good friend. Now he is working in another country. Recently I came to know (he don't know about it ) that they had an affair, this thing he didn't say to me. May be he is getting scared of me to say that. Now he is working abroad (that girl is not their) & I am in India. He comes after 6 months to India for 2 months leave. I want to know whether he will Faithul with me after marriage. Will he Love me that much after marriage how he Loves me now.

Answer 1

right now its a distant relation. in any thing if you have doubt and you think there can be something which is not right in anyway, think twice before you leap,since you are from India you are exactly going to spend your whole life with this person rather than switching, and he works abroad it does not give you a guarantee at his faithfulness be careful before you decide its your life and you know much better

Answer 2

I am a white english girl but I have many indian friends. I am going to India in January to attend 3weddings of these friends.(they are all male) all of them have lived in the UK for the last 3yrs and have had many sexual relationships some of them with strippers etc. However they have all told their future brides that they r virgins, its seems to be a cultural thing. They are also being forced to marry because their parents expect it, how can people have hones open relationships wen they r forced into arranged marriages? However they all assure me that they r just spreading their wild oats and will be faithful once they are married. Just for a laugh I tell them that their future wives have probably had lots of lovers too and are lying about their virginity as well!! You should see how it wipes the smiles off their faces. There is never a guarantee of fidelity, but start of trusting him till you have any evidence to the contrary

Answer 3

hello. For a true love you shall have to cross the bars of caste, color and creed. So far as the external affiars are concerned, these will stop immediately after marriage on the condition that you love him too much. Never let him remember that he was ever having such affairs. Moreso, Pray to God to wisdom to him. Things shall settle automatically. Just Trust in God and Do the Right.

Answer 4

To tell you the truth no he will not love you much after marriage. He is proving that he will be unfaithfully to you and I think the only reason he is marrying you is because he want to have an Indian Gal as a wife to fulfil some cultural issues. I see it all the time, Man marry gal not from his community then he gets a second wife to fulfil his parents wishes.

He is not honest with himself. I would be of the suggestion that if you have a choice to kindly not marry him.

Answer 5

Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.

I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.

Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.

I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.

When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!

Answer 6

My dear friend, life is full of surprises, and constantly on the move. no one and nothing stops for any one or anything. life keeps moving. The only thing which is steady is your own faith in yourself. If you have faith in yourself, then instead of having doubts about someone cheating on you, will not bother you, instead you will try to give your best, every time you two are togather, that way even the other partner will give you his best. Even if he does estrays once in a while to satisfy his natural urge it will only be temporary, It can change to a permanent relationship only if he or she stops getting the best from you. So always give your best and to your partner and stop worrying. I wish u all the very best.

Answer 7

Dear innocent lady , you have every right to find out about your husband , but always have confidence in your own strength also , as far as he is coming back after every 6 months and taking care of all your needs in terms of finance and maintaining your bank account in a very healthy position and give full respect to your feelings , you must not spying on his movements and stop worrying about his friendship with others , he is yours & will remain yours .

Answer 8

it may be ok if he is no longer seeing her. he is not married yet so he is not doing anything wrong. If he really loves you and treats you good that is all that matters. why do you care what he does in some other country?It is not like he is doing it in your face. If you make a big deal about it he will almost always do it again. act like it does not bother you(even though it of course does) then he gets no attention for bad behavior and will be less likely to do it again. good luck.

Answer 9

Their are no guarantee's, but there is no reason not to believe him now. Lot's of people do not discuss the details of their past, and how many of us really want to know.
Trust your self, if you feel he is being honest with you, then he will probably love you more after being married.

Answer 10

You need to mention it! Don't take the oath of marriage with dirt on your face. Make him come clean. If he can't be honest with you, you are in for a bumpy ride.