i love him from class 5,that time he was in college,he use 2 teach me,now i m in 11th standered.
we r having age difference of 9yrs and he think i m too young for him,i have not seem him 4 the past 5yrs but still i love him a lot we r having contact in email but i send him ten messege then he reply 1.after 5 yrs in this puja he will come.is there any way by which i can make love 4 me too,plz friends dont tell me to forget him as i can...................i need a solution because no of my frieds could have helped me till yet.plz tell me what can i do to make him love me?
2006-08-02 23:32:13 · 7 answers · asked by rosia_89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Good luck
2006-08-02 23:36:32 · answer #1 · answered by kimarley r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-08-03 06:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,you should talk to him this time when he is in town and have a serious talk,let him know how deeply you feel about him and get to know his feelings too......if age is the only issue then its no issue at all,cos its very normal if you are OK with it then all is OK becos,you have to realize that what he is now,you will be after 10 years then he will be another 10 years older,you will be young when he'll be 10 years older....so think about it,if u r fine then no issues.....
but please be ready fro anything........you cannot force someone to love you and be with you.......if he seems not interested,then you have to move on....even u deserve someone caring and someone who'll respect your feelings,right?and trust me one sided love is no love at all....its only your assumption and attraction,u have to come out of it and start living......
so go ahead and try your luck but always remember whatever happens happens for the best!!
2006-08-03 07:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't make a person loves u,a person got his\her own mind to act on their feelings.if he still loves u then when u with him make each and every moment u have together as special as it can be,appriciate him the way he is.
2006-08-03 06:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by naghtynite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be nice to him and better take him out for lunch or dinner and tell him about your heart's feeling. Better face the reality then to wait again for so many years.
2006-08-03 06:39:48 · answer #5 · answered by yogesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congraculation
i am very happy that u meet the one u love
try to make him understand that how is ur real feelin
2006-08-03 06:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more realistic. Relationship like this wont last.
2006-08-03 06:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Dogs Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋