i am falling in love with a man who is 16 years older than me.
how can i get along well with him?
2006-08-02 23:20:09 · 18 answers · asked by jean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why do we constantly allow guys to depict the way we feel or behave.
I'm sure most of us feel that we are independent self-reliant women yet when a guy doesn't call, we feel like ****. Suddenly we are no longer confident. Does he not like me anymore? Like wat the ****. I need to get off that hook. I need to think that i can move on. I know i can but i need time. After that i want no more emotional attachments cos they eventually hurt u. But i know no matter how much u tell urself to keep things simple..it becomes complicated.
Sch is ******* stressful with mid-terms on their way and project deadlines approaching like a looming dark cloud. Life has never been this stressful and boring. It's a routine. Sch-project meeting-home. But i dun think i can handle any distraction. It'll be too hectic. But my darlings..u can come and disturb me anytime. I appreciate the asking of my well being and concern from u people. It really helps.
I just want to make sure i never fall into the trap again. No matter how shitty or boring life can be..it's still better than having ur heart heaved out of ur body and being trampled on.
When i see someone in love, i feel like yanking their heads out and filling it with hate. I wonder what's so especially abt love that one actually forgets his own identity? I'm not toking without experience..Infact i can say with much certainty that I hate the feeling of being in love..It makes u weak, vulnerable, clingy, wide-eyed, dreamy and so many other words i can come out with that associate back to being a loser.. Where's the strong, up-town, sophisticated, I-Know-i can -make-it on-my-own woman? I'm really a huge feminist.. which is why i dun give a **** abt what a guy has to offer me cos it's never enough and also i can get watever i want myself!
2006-08-02 23:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why would you wanna start a relationship - if possible - with a man old enough to be your dad? Find someone your own age",)
2006-08-03 06:25:19 · answer #2 · answered by angel 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step back and ask yourself why you want to be with him.
That's how you can love him--be honest with yourself and him.
If you need to ask help as to how to relate to him, the relationship is already failing.
2006-08-03 06:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its love, never break. But I think you are suspicious with the word - go. So this ill not last long.
2006-08-03 06:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by sbbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first be a true friend to him find the rigth time to inroduce youself then greet him everytime you see him so that will easy for him to remember somene like you
2006-08-03 06:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Joni J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope you don't mean sexually, but true love is a consistant good attitude towards life and it respects it's creatures. It doesn't let feelings dominate it;s reasoning. But hey, that's me.
2006-08-03 06:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Cyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur pic is a man.but lets 4get it. if u really feel u r in love with him it is not important at all. love can move montains believe it
2006-08-03 06:33:27 · answer #7 · answered by scarlet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not a mature young lady, hes not for you ...You will get tired of trying to be something your not...
2006-08-03 06:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by shart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there no push about love.
love is a feeling.
it will come if u really love that guy.
for me.. i know that only 1person i can love. =p
2006-08-03 06:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by izzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be like a daughter to him, he will love u much
2006-08-03 06:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by rocky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋