http://www.mindpub.com/art356.htm
I'm just a kid trying to share my reanoing with everyone else. What do you think? How can a relationship last if you're not best friends with the person? Another thing i may add is that one must understand love. I say it's a constistant good attitude towards life. It doesn't get it's reasoning dominated by feelings. It isn't a mere feeling. I also believe that if you have the same goals and beliefs on how to reach them, I don't no what could possibly go wrong. Perhaps the advantage to a Christian marrigae is that they should be less materialistic. Plus, those who do everything together tend to stay together.
Remeber, you're hearing all this from a kid who is tired of seeing so much ignorance about this subject.
2006-08-02 23:17:13 · 5 answers · asked by Cyber 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I spelled reasoning wrong the first time LOL
2006-08-02 23:17:49 · update #1
I also pelled marriage wrong....darn, why don't i proof read before submiting? LOL
2006-08-02 23:19:11 · update #2
and i spelled spell wrong...now that's even worse! LOL
2006-08-02 23:19:39 · update #3
First of all, for a kid, you're pretty funny. Second of all, love without friendship is not possible. That's just lust.
2006-08-03 05:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lotus 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
For one you are ignorant. Being in a christian relationship does not determine materialism. Just the other day I drove by a christian church and there were two parking spots marked pastor parking, and the funny thing is in one there was a hummer H2 sitting in the one spot and in the other there was a mercedes in the other. I would consider that materialism especially when the median income of a pastor is less than 25, 000 a year.
As for the friendship part I totally agree with the best friends part of it. I consider my partner my best friend and he also considers me his best friend. I think that the number one thing that keeps our relationship so strong is honesty. As for love, it is a very difficult subject. I think that people get infatuation and love mixed up.
As for goals and beliefs being the same I some what agree on that, that is usually how two people meet and initiate a relationship. But the thing is it is not always the basis for a great relationship. One example that I can think of is my partner and I, I am a catholic woman and he is not relegious at all. Some would think that this was an issue especially if we were to have kids, well we have decided that neither one of us wants kids. Other than that we have no issues that come up between us about relegion.
So again I think that the problem with love is that people get love and infatuation mixed up. Once you find true love it really is the most incredible thing that can ever happen in your life......
2006-08-02 23:41:33 · answer #2 · answered by vsecrets24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well you do not really sound like a kid at all...but i believe a good relationship that they are friends first and then it grows on to something more stronger...like love...and they have a strong attraction for each other...and then if they want to commit to a relationship and work out their problems if they have issues they do not see eye to eye on they work on those...but sometimes exact opposite people are attracted to each other but if they really want to work on their relationship they can make it work.. one thing in this world today they do not seem to want to work on their differences or do not mean the words to death do us part...well anyway if you are a kid then you have did a good job with this question,,,,,best to you..and friends first is a must, trust , loyalty , understanding , giving on both sides now and then and encourage your love to do the best they can and be there for him or her when it is needed...share things, be a real team..just the two of them...
2006-08-02 23:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to touch you to know
love is everywhere that you go
you dont have to touch you to feel
love is every second we steal
love is love is nothing wthout you
love is love is everything you do
open up your eyes and you will see
love is love is everything to me
you dont have to touch you to be
wrapped up in a motion like me
everyone must feel how i do
love is just to be close to you
and you know that love is love
its written in black and blue
and everything you say must bring her
closer to you.
2006-08-02 23:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by lovelyshih 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone..or a great interest and pleasure in something..not only friendship but also the trust u have with him or her is essential
2006-08-02 23:31:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋