Whether you like it or not, it will be painful. So the trick is how to minimize it.
1. Your partner must be gentle to you.
2. Your partner must prepare you well enough (get you aroused and well lubricated) before the entry.
3. You must be prepared (physically, emotionally and psychologically) also for it.
Take note, it can happen only once (naturally), so make it a wonderful moment to remember.
2006-08-02 23:13:40
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes during first time sex girls will get lots pain. But this is the procedure so you can not save your self from this. U can have some lubricants for not getting pain.
2006-08-03 06:10:27
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answered by mahenj 1
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Perhaps a little with tearing of the hymen. The male should take his time caressing the girl in foreplay so that she is eager for the act. Then, any small pain will be more than compensated for by pleasure.
2006-08-03 06:10:27
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answered by Anonymous
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When I lost my virginity it didn't really hurt it just felt like pressure. The best way to go about it is to just relax. If you are tense you vagina will be tighter and make it more painful. But really in all honesty it depends on the girl.
2006-08-03 06:10:50
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answered by Michele B 2
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Yes it is but most times usually just for a minute or two until your cherry pops. And chances are if your tight you will bleed so don't do it on nice sheets. But after the first time you should be fine unless your boyfriend is a horse.
2006-08-03 06:12:21
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answered by kitty_and_meander 2
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Yes it does! But then god has given women/girls a lot of stamina to bear pain. After the first time, it's all OK.
2006-08-03 06:11:03
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answered by vkm 1
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my wife says.." yes, it did hurt, but my first was very large, almost 10 inches. Make sure you use a lot of lube, and that he starts off slow, and performs a lot of foreplay so you are relaxed. If it hurts, dont have him put it all the way in, until you are ready.
2006-08-03 06:10:29
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answered by Anonymous
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usually yes...
i think there's no way to not feel the pain, maybe if your foreplay is good, u just feel a little pain...
2006-08-03 06:11:15
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answered by ? 4
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Most girls ive talked to said they were sore for a day, but after that first time were fine.
2006-08-03 06:09:18
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answered by Gabriel S 1
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I am guy so i cant citate how you girls feel.But i can give you these,if you love your partner it should be painfil in a space tech way.Or i will make it better 4 u.
2006-08-03 06:14:37
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answered by THABISO M 1
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