WELL I KNOW ONE WOMEN FOR THE LAST 4 YRS & I RESPECT HER VERY MUCH COZ SHE IS VERY EXTRAORDRANIRY,U CAN SAY BETTER IN ALL FEILDS.
BY THIS WAY AM ATTRACTED TOWARDS HER BUT NOT PHYSICALLY.I TOLD HER MAY TIMES ALSO THAT I CARES ABT HER VERY MUCH & KISSED HER IN HER CHICK & I KNOW I LOVE HER VERY MUCH ,DEEPLY & MADLY BUT SHE IS MARRIED.I GUESS SHE ALSO KNOWS THAT I LIKED HER VERY MUCH BUT NEVER TOLD ME ANYTHING BUT SHE TOLD ME SHE WILL FIND A GIRL FOR ME TO MARRY & I DON'T WANT THAT ?
NOW GIRLS PLS TELL ME WHAT IS THE FEELING THAT I NEVER UNDERSTAND FROM HER & WHAT SLD I DO TO PLEASE HER ?
PLS I REALLY DO NEED YOUR SUGGESTIONS.
2006-08-02 22:41:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She's married? Leave her alone. She probably just sees you as a friend.
2006-08-02 22:46:18 · answer #1 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you love some one so much and they seem to be a soul mate that does not mean that the relationship has to be of a sexual nature. My best friend and myself have been close like that for years. We are not lesbians or closet homosexuals we are two heterosexual females that just happen to be closer than two sisters or even a husband and wife. People often think that if you feel so strongly towards another person that it must be Koinonia (love) between them and that it must mean that they are meant to be together forever as a "couple". This is not so, it is a fallacy propagated by the media.
If you want the relationship to grow, BE HONEST, let this person know how you feel that (if you are a lesbian) you love her in that special way and that you really do not want anybody else but if she does not that you would rather have her her as a best friend and confidant than not have her in your life at all. If you are straight and you love her that much again, BE HONEST, she may not feel that way about your friendship yet but if your make an effort and show her that just as much as she is there for you that you can be there for her then you will have a relationship that goes beyond anything you could ever imagine.
2006-08-03 05:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anisa B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm proud of her.. That's all I can say.. Reality check here! She is married for one thing.. Another, she only treats you as a friend.. A kiss in the cheek is nothing more than a wave of hello to friends.. Take my advice and leave her alone.. She decided not to wreck her family adn you better respect that decision.. If you erally do respect her that is..
It is quite obvious that she is not interested in you.. She did say that you can find another woman right? You should be thankful that she didn't confronted you.. She definitely got my respect.. Leave her be and if you can't stop falling in love with her, then move far away from her.. It isn't helping you in any way.. Move on and live on.. Be patient and the right one for you will come along..
2006-08-03 05:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Lei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear if the girl that you think you love is married, then you have to let go of your feelings and move on. There are single girls there that will really suit you and love you back in return. For sure you don't want to ruin a good marriage right?
2006-08-03 05:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by yummy _me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y u want help frm others as u r spoiling somebody's married life .c its not fair n also u dnt hav any right 2 intterupt in their married life'u try 2 avoid her because if she sying that she will search a gal 4 u 2 marry then definitely she takes u as a friend only but u r taking her in other way ,world is so big n u hav 2 cme forward not to break someone's married life.okey!!
2006-08-03 05:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by kanu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not attracted to her physically but u want to marry her, but u cant cause shes already married?
Well, i dont know how u can be so crazy in love with her if ur not attracted to her. And if shes married there isnt much u can do there if she isnt going to leave her husband and even said that u need to find another girl.
2006-08-03 05:47:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude
i think u just have to move on wid life... attractions are many but true love is just one.. and if u just go running after a woman whuse already married and maybe does not even love u, u may lose a very precious one for whum maybe ull crave later on....
i think thebest way to get distracted from her is to maintain a little distance frm her.....
i think u shud really leave thinking about her.. thn im damn sure ur true love will meet u... ok take care.
2006-08-03 05:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok listen she is married so she is off limits but you can always tell her how you truly fell and tell her if she does find someone for you to make sure she has alot of the same things in common as her and tell her because she is married that you need to stay away for a little bit because of your feelings
2006-08-03 05:51:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about how u would fill if u were in her husbands shoes.be a man and walk away. fooling around with someone Else's woman is only going to make a fool out of you.
2006-08-03 05:59:27 · answer #9 · answered by lovinonly#1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's married, you need to find someone else. Maybe closer to your age?
2006-08-03 05:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by lisacantcook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋