What woman should do if her husband doesnt let her work, because he is jealous?

Answer 1

Get out of the relatioship right away and get a divorce. This shouldn't be happening. This guy, from what it sounds like, is pretty insecure, especially if he won't let his wife work. The next thing you know, he's going to isolate her from the rest of the family, and then, that's going to be the end of it.

Answer 2

There's always Bad & Good. Negative minds will never agree while 4 the positive, there's a word 2 say. Anyway , no matter how it ends, the decision is make by the woman. A family needs 2 to build.. If the wife agrees with the husband, she can still do her duties well in the house. One in & one out. If she still insists that she needs 2 carry on with her job, just do it, provided that she's sure of satisfying his needs, in forms of more concerning, being together ( any functions if he requires her 2 attend) sometimes b a little lady behinds him. Men self - esteem are very, very strong.

Answer 3

This is ridiculous. If you know it's because he is jealous, then that is a threat to your safety. What's he going to do about it? If he doesn't think you should work because your small children are better off with you at home, that's a valid concern, but it's still your choice.

If you are using the word "let" to describe anything about either side of this relationship it is seriously messed up. Get counseling or leave. If this relationship doesn't work out then you are left on your own with a huge hole in your job history and career that aren't going to be his problem.

Answer 4

It really depends with your qualifications and how you got them. If you are not qualified babe, then he can provide all why worry dont work.But as i know human nature you are never satisfied by being provided for, your are not a kid , who should be fended for.Talk to him and tell him , why you have to work, and tell him the way he is jealous on you is the same way you feel, so he too should stop working and see how he will react,If he is content with both stay home, but if he is not then both of you should go to work.
Wel ,it might be a reason for him to freak around town when you are home, such that you never get to get him red handed.So air out your opinions ,and stop being babish when you tok to him , be firm, and let him notice you mean all you say.
If he cant let you work, well you do not live for him, get your life and you can handle alone, coz i believe, you need to kip your mind jegged up and busy, you cant stay home all day long my dear.No way not in today's world set up, you are being left behind my dear.

Answer 5

Get some help. This is a form of abuse. There are always other options. Find some. The longer you go on like this, the worse it will get. Most likely, things won't change. I've found that you can't change another person; you can only change or make a change for yourself. The only way your life will be any different, is if you do something.

Answer 6

I wouldn't allow my husband to tell me what I can and can't do when it comes to my career and choice to work or not. If I want to work, I will.

If he cause's an issue. We will seek counseling. If it doesn't resolve and his insecurity and jelouse comes to rage and won't settle, I will seek seperation and if we can reconcile, we will divorce.

However, my fiance supports my education and my career. Loves the fact I want to work and when have kids, i will be a stay at home mom til they ender later pre school prior to kinder. but, I know some females who have that problem or have the problem of their husbands not working. It should not be tolerated.

Answer 7

First you tell him to get counselling for HIS issues, they aren't your problem and then you get a job anyway and tell him to deal with it or leave. He's a control freak, he is doing it so you are completely dependant on him and can't leave. He has many problems, altering your behavior because of them is only going to make them worse, he'll feel justified in doing it.

Answer 8

That is not good. Go ahead and work. He is trying to control you and make you totally dependent on him. If he doesn't treat you well, you can't leave cos you don't have money to support yourself. It's a dangerous road to take.

Answer 9

Get a job, support yourself and leave the control freak.

Answer 10

What do u mean "dosent let her", its a free country, he cant tell u what to do. However, if ur dumb enough to marry a guy like that, then maybe u need someone to tell u what to do.