My bf and i've been talking to each other about 9 months now. We didnt tell none of it to our parents. But about 2 weeks ago his parents found out and his father took his cell. I can't contact him....and i'm really missing him! I really don't know what to do right now.
Btw he'll be 19 in 1 month and i'm 17. What do they see wrong? We're still young i know, but at least i'm not 12!
2006-08-02 22:32:50 · 11 answers · asked by stargirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a parents job is 2 care 4 their child! They can b nosey,overprotective,and over react but thats jus their way of showin they care an want only the best 4 u! What his parents did was wrong he has 2 speak 2 them an let them now how he feels about u an how long u guys been 2gether!hopefully ur parents r ok wit it!
2006-08-02 22:42:53 · answer #1 · answered by CRAZY IN LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you live under your parent's roof, you have to abide by their rules. I cannot even fathom living in my parent's home after 18. I left when I was 15. Get your independence and you won't have to answer to Mommy and Daddy anymore. Jeez. Tell your 19 year old boyfriend child to get his butt out of Mommy and Daddy's house too. Sheesh. If you don't want the responsibility of acting like adults, then don't complain when Mommy and Daddy put you on restriction. Sorry. I have no sympathy for your plight. I haven't put up with that since I was 15 years old. I had a full time job and never stopped. I was able to call my own plays.
2006-08-02 22:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you think ur parents know better than you what they are doing? true u are grown up but they are more grown up than you. they have raised u. they have ur happiness at heart. they will always do good for u. Please dont fight with them cos it will create problems between you. if you are so sure then why were u hiding ur friendship with that boy? you should have told your parents about it in the first place. At your age all kids behave as if their parents are their worst enemies. believe me. it happens. its cos of the harmones. these are just infatuations. these last for a few months or maybe a couple of years but mind u they are not lasting relationships. dont do anything rash. think rationally make your parents your confidantes. they will be the best friends and guides for you. try it. you wont be disappointed
2006-08-02 22:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be happy al least your mom isn't your (momager ) mom+manager my mom actully had me date justin barefiel from the show malcolm in the middel and i'm not even a loud to pick out my own clothes i can't even enter a store with out my handelers saying no pictures to littel kids and my awsome fan base and ay least you don't have to constentily maintain the teen image i'm only 16 and i'm on set like 22 hours aday and i have to look perfect all the time and be so nice to every one no matter what your lucky e-me bye loves it
2006-08-02 22:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents are just looking out for you.. You will be 18 in less than a year.. Then you can move out and do whatever you want... If you love someone you can wait. And if it is really love, it will be worth the wait..
Plus it may be considered statutory rape in your state if you are having sex.. His father could be covering his sons @ss.
2006-08-02 22:38:21 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you never heard of a land line, you know house phone? Not one of his friends will loan him a quarter,or their cell phone? Sorry, but if losing his cell, means he has no way to contact you for two months, he dumped you.
2006-08-02 22:37:55 · answer #6 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is 19 ahhh I had this same prob only she was 19 and I was older. He needs to grow some and get his own phone or his own place and do what he want to. Can he not afford his own phone?
-NmD!
2006-08-02 22:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel sometimes parents try to protect us and they just end up running ourlives 4 us which is really frustrating because we wnt to learn 4rm our mistakes.
2006-08-02 22:40:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're can't be wrong! why is his father standing in your way? try to find another solution to communicate with your boyfriend. follow your hearts.
2006-08-02 22:37:38 · answer #9 · answered by ♫Pavic♫ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just obey, until you're on your own...
house,
income
expenses...
2006-08-02 22:36:45 · answer #10 · answered by mug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋