how can i make him realize its him i want. and no one else. i keep telling that. but he always thinks there is someone else & and that i still miss being single. his the one im ready to settle down with. and i keep telling him that. we have two kids. he tells me he wants to marry too. weve been together for over 3 yrs now. his been married before too. could that have anything to do w/it. his very jealous. always asking if im happy w/him. it hurts every time he does that. thinking im seeing someone else.
2006-08-02 21:50:43 · 5 answers · asked by arizona 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
awwww...this is a terrible situation to be in. I feel that he is pretty insecure about himself, and to some extent it seems as though he don't really trust you. you guys already have children to gather the relationship shouldn't be in the stage of being jealous or being suspicious about one another. Don't you think so? The level of trust should be there. I think if I were you I would be very upset and would have this really serious conversation with him regarding of you seeing someone else. You should tell him in a firm and serious manner that this behavior of him is making you feel bad and if he cares about you and love you he must trust you as well. You shouldn't let him carry on with his weird suspicion. Don't forget you hasn't done anything so being suspicious of you is just plain wrong.
2006-08-02 22:09:08 · answer #1 · answered by Nailhead_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what would make him believe you are not seeing anyone else. If there isn't anything, you may want to reconsider this relationship. No one should be that suspicious or jealous or insecure.
2006-08-02 21:56:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will always accuse the next person of something I'm actually doing just to make me feel better. Think about it girl and then turn the tables
2006-08-02 22:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he had bad deal once and is worried, perhaps rightfully so. you are sexy and any man would be happy to have you. reassure him. good luck babe.
2006-08-02 22:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by sinned 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he made b had sum exp wid his pass relationships sit him down and have a SERIOUS talk wid him ...
2006-08-02 21:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋