well i just found out my friend is cheating on her husband.because first of all she was making out with this tall guy in the alley,i saw them having sex once when i was going to tell her something,i saw a mans condom in her room,and i listened to her voice mails and one of them was a guy that said he'd pick her up tonight.how can i tell her husband?i don't want to break his heart for her.please help!
2006-08-02 21:48:24 · 16 answers · asked by ElEgAnTFiShIe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would get some proof and give that to him. He deserves to know!!!
2006-08-02 21:53:56 · answer #1 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound old fashioned or sarcastic here, but it seems to me that you are probably enjoying sticking your nose where it doesn't belong. My simple advise to you would be to mind your own business. It really isn't your place to be getting involved in all of this.
If you really feel the need to intervene somehow, then the last person you should talk to is your friend's husband. If anything, a chat with your friend should be the first thing you should consider. In which case, you better have a good explanation for why you were listening to her voice mail in the first place. I would think that she, like everyone else, would want you to respect her privacy. So what were you doing, listening to your friend's private voice mail, huh? lol
Think about this before you make your next move!
2006-08-03 05:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrange to have him catch her. Or maybe just sit him down and tell him, he may not believe you if he is really in to her, chances are he suspects though. I would hate to see the guy get a disease or something just because his wife is a sl*t, or get mixed up in one of those I don't know who the daddy is messes and end up paying for someone elses kid the rest of his life (and by the way if they are married and in the states and she has a kid and they are married he is considered the legal father and WILL have to pay even if its not biologically his kid) so the way I see it he NEEDS to know asap!
2006-08-03 06:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ask your Friend first as to why is she doing it and tell her you don't like this. May be she has a reason for it! If U don't find anything worth in her reasons then think of telling her husband.
2006-08-03 05:13:49 · answer #4 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell. He probably already knows or will figure it out for himself soon enough. No need for you to get dragged into the situation.
2006-08-03 05:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by cabin_grrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just talk to your friend about it, get her to stop messing around and acting like a ho. Why would you bypass your FRIEND and talk to HER husband about THEIR relationship.
2006-08-03 04:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is better he knows then live a lie. He might be upset with you at first, but later on he will know wut you did was the right thing. So let him know now before it is to late.
2006-08-03 04:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by Blitz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him anonymous parcel with proofs and make sure your friend does not pick it up
2006-08-03 04:58:44 · answer #8 · answered by sabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your place.....mind your own buisness........and why would u invade her privacy and listen to her voice mails?.......maybe u r just a little jealous and youll like alittle on the side too...???.....???/
2006-08-03 04:59:05 · answer #9 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her see if you cant get her to fess up because really its not your problem
2006-08-03 05:35:51 · answer #10 · answered by Bridgit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋