i dreamt that i have a penis and that i'm having sex with a girl AND her husband was looking for who had sex with her, and i acted like i'm dead for her husband not to notice me!!!!
2006-08-02 21:42:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
AND I'M NOT LESBIAN, AND I DON'T LIKE GIRLS BY THE WAY, AND I'M STRAIGHT AND I'M VIRGIN
2006-08-02 21:50:30 · update #1
Homosexual
To dream that you are homosexual (but you are not in your waking life), represents a union with aspects of yourself. It is symbolic of self-love, self-acceptance, and compassion. If, in your dream, you are not comfortable with homosexuality, then it suggests some fears/anxieties about your masculinity (if you are male) and femininity (if you are female). You may be experiencing some insecurity in your relations with the opposite sex.
On a side note, it is common for expectant fathers to have dreams of homosexual encounters.
If you are homosexual in your waking life, then the dream is simply a reflection of your own self.
Oral Sex
To dream that you are giving or receiving oral sex, signifies your willingness to give or receive pleasure/joy. It is symbolic of your creative energy and reaffirms that you are headed in the right direction in life. The dream may also be a pun on talking about sex. You may need to communicate with your mate about your sexual needs and desires. Perhaps you are acting out your sexual wishes.
Sex
To dream about sex, may be your libido's way of telling you that it's been too long since you have had sex. It may indicate repressed sexual desires and your needs for physical and emotional love.
To dream about sex with someone other than your spouse or significant other, suggests dissatisfaction with the physical side of your relationship. On the other hand, it may be harmless fantasy. In such situations, you may find that you are less inhibited sexually and you can even bring that sense of adventure to your existing relationship.
To dream that you are having sex with an ex or something that is not your current mate, denotes your reservations about embarking in a new relationship or situation. You may feel nervous about exposing yourself or currently feel a resurgence of those old emotions and feelings that you felt back when you and your ex were together. Believe it or not, it is not uncommon for people approaching their wedding to experience especially erotic adventures with partners other than their intended spouses. This may be due to the intensity of your sexual passion with your fiancé. It also relates to the new roles that you will be taking on and the uncertainty that that may bring.
If you are heterosexual and you dream that you are having sex with someone of the same sex, signifies not necessarily homosexual desire, but an expression of greater self love and acceptance. You need to be in better touch of your feminine or masculine side.
Transsexual
To dream that you are transsexual, symbolizes your anxieties or ambivalence about masculine/feminine roles or passive/aggressive behavior. You may be reluctant in dealing with these issues. If you are considering or awaiting transsexual surgery, then the dream may represent your anxieties and fears about the surgery, recovery, and life after surgery.
To see a transsexual in your dream, indicates that the masculine and feminine aspects of your Self has been damaged. You may be unwilling to confront your shadow self.
Bisexual
If you are not bisexual and dream that you are, then it may indicate some sexual repression. You may be trying to compensate for your lack of sexual expression. Alternatively, it may represent general sexual confusion.
Anal Sex
To dream about anal sex, represents submission. You may be afraid to yield to the wants and desires of others.
Sexuality
To dream about your own sexuality, signifies the secrets and meaning of life. You may be dealing with life issues of birth, marriage, and/or death. Alternatively, it suggests that you are concerned about losing your sex appeal.
2006-08-02 21:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by Mario E 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The penis is a symbol of power.
This dream represents an inner momentum that you have somehow built towards gaining more personal power.
However, the husband in the dream is a reflection of your subconcious discomfort with having this personal power, and the reaction of playing dead shows your attempt to mask or hide from others, the fact that you have acquired this power.
Its a good sign, that your life is bringing you in a direction of new opportunities. But its also a revelation of the necessity for you to learn how to deal with this personal growth, and how it changes your status among your peers.
2006-08-03 04:56:50 · answer #2 · answered by Tuna-San 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Given that there is a strong association between the penis and the ego, an undersized penis may represent low self-esteem and an oversized penis may suggest being egocentric or shallow
exual interaction within the dream state may reflect sexual dissatisfaction in your waking life
Often those who fear judgment, are sexually inhibited, or are generally unable to express themselves, dream of sex in order to find relief and release from the effects of these limitations
If one of the sexual partners is dominant, it may denote an imbalance in male/female energies within
Dreams of abusive sex may indicate hidden memories of earlier abuse
2006-08-03 04:52:07 · answer #3 · answered by wheels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a big fan of Freudian psychoanalysis(see the previous entry by the guy who makes mention of Freud), although they describe problems well- it is vague and ambiguous and describe rather than explain. You mentioned you're a virgin, and in this dream the husband is looking for the perpetrator. I believe the husband may represent your parents and it may involve guilt in losing your virginity.
2006-08-03 06:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry I have dreams that I am having sex with women too.
But then I am a guy as well.
Your dream is about what it would be like to be a guy, the cheating part I am not sure about.
But never the less it is a dream...
2006-08-03 04:55:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people who have tried to answer your question have consulted numerous dream dictionaries, which according to recent research in dream analysis is false.
I suggest that you go see a clinical psychologist or psychiatrist because to perform a thorough analysis of your dream, numerous information and tests have to be performed vefore a conclusive analysis could be done.
Good luck!
2006-08-03 07:27:05 · answer #6 · answered by raffyinocencio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, it's hard to tell because I don't know you or the people you are dreaming about but, my bet would be that the dream was not about sex. Is there a secret that you and this girl are hiding?
2006-08-03 04:50:50 · answer #7 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries. U are still young and virgin, so u are just curious about what sex is and how does it feel.
Just let your dreams be and it can never harm u. Did u watch pron or nude show(be honest)? Maybe u still have the lingering images...
2006-08-03 05:02:50 · answer #8 · answered by a V a 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey thats what strap-on's are for.
The part of you that is curious & inexperienced, as it happens is innocent. Simply because you're a virgin.
You're only human don't worry about it.
You don't have to be Lesbian or a Sexual Deviant, simple curiousity is to blame.
Chill.
... and please have a nice day.
2006-08-03 05:03:03 · answer #9 · answered by somber_pieces 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear, don't be bothered about your dreams. It is just dreams. Dreams are product of our own thinking. Think of things that are noble, true , honest, pure and things worthy. I will assure you that next time you dream it will be a good inspiring dream.
2006-08-03 04:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by Jeth L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋