my gf aunts past away this week.... she has been really sad she was really close 2 her and i tried telling her that she is in a better place and that life is like that... everyday ppl past away just like everyday ppl r born into this world... but she cant stop crying and its killing me inside and i cant stand seeing her the way she is now... i brought big ballons saying i love u... but it did not do much idk wat elase to do...how can i make her feel better... and she seems to want to be alone and she has not fault like talking to ppl... wat can i do to make her feel better
2006-08-02 21:21:51 · 9 answers · asked by bigJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's normal to be sad when someone near and dear to your heart passes away. The best you can do now is be there for her, from what it sounds like you're already doing pretty good. However, don't take it personally if she goes through phases where she wants to be alone. It doesn't mean that she doesn't care about you, or that she doesn't love you. Just show her and tell her that if she needs to talk or if she just needs you to be around that you're there for her.
2006-08-02 21:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by Adrienne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur such a nice person, thank god for ppl like you!!
crack a joke, i think that this might cheer her up a bit, everyone loves to laugh :p
make her laugh her heart out and just dont go onto that topic
hug her, go to theme parks and just have fun.
sorry this isnt the best answer but i really dnt know how to help u
2006-08-02 21:28:14 · answer #2 · answered by Fancy_shit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much just be there for her as much as you can and let her know you are there whenever and however she needs you even if it is 3am in the morning, also maybe suggest the two of you do something memorable in her aunts honor.
2006-08-02 21:30:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy her lots of flowers and cook her dinner and make it so that she doesn't feel obligated to do anything (aka cook, clean, etc.) because that will make her even more stressed. just let her know that even though you don't know exactly what she's feeling, you're there for her and love her and hate to see her the way she is...
2006-08-02 21:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by hoedurwhorses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot make her feel better just listen to her and be there with a shoulder to cry on when she needs you.
-NmD!
2006-08-02 21:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing more u can do just b there for her and comfort her shell get over in tym so let it b....everything will b okay ull see all she needs is tym and a good friend ...
2006-08-02 21:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be close to her as much as u can, give compassion as much as u can, and her sandness will fade away gradually
2006-08-02 21:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know that your there for her and if theres anything you can do then just ask.and be compassionate when you talk to her she'll appreciate it dude
2006-08-02 21:26:06 · answer #8 · answered by andy f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to comfort in any way necessary
2006-08-02 21:28:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋