My husband woke me before he went to work to tell me he wont be running my bath or loading the washer and dish washer!!! How do I challenge his nasty behavior?
2006-08-02 21:17:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
@Gypsie lmao girl!
@pickle Would you be sure to run my bath though!
2006-08-02 22:45:27 · update #1
Mr pickle your pulled!
2006-08-02 23:09:29 · update #2
MATE HERE YOU GO AND HAND HIM DIVORCE PAPERS THEN COME DOWN SOUTH AND MARRY THE GOOD LOOKING REGGIE.
RUN YOUR BATH I WOULD CARRY YOU INTO IT AND WASH YOUR BACK EVERYDAY.
THEN COOK YOU BREAKFAST AND KISS YOU GOODBYE AS I WENT TO WORK.
heres the number of a good solicitor then. 0123456789
2006-08-02 22:12:46 · answer #1 · answered by mrpickle 2 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Well I can't believe he runs your bath firstly!! (something i must learn to master) But it's simple, No sex for a long time, don't wash any of his clothes, only make your side of the bed, cook for yourself only . I once threw all my partners clothes and shoes that he had left lying around into the garden and got my kids to fill em with soil while i put the hose on em. They had a whale of a time and he learned his lesson.....never a stray shoe in sight! Reward men when good and punish when bad..that's my motto!
2006-08-03 04:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by Gypsie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have hired a butler instead of getting married, they don't cost a fortune to drag through the divorce courts either, why should your husband run your bath for you, do you run one for him every day, can't you put stuff in the dishwasher yourself or pop your washing in the machine, marriage is about sharing everything and not unpaid slavery, treat him to a nice meal and start sharing things between you and stop expecting him to do everything for you.
2006-08-03 08:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't know aboput your touch but it sounds as if you are in danger of losing your husband!
Sounds to me like you don't want a husband you want a slave. You expect him to do things for you. This is a recipe for disaster. He has obviously been doing these nice things for you out of love with no expectation of reciprocation. Do you reciprocate? Do you show him how much you appreciate these loving touches? Or have you just been expecting them? It is a huge mistake to expect love and to take without giving. He is realising that you are using him and expecting what you should be grateful for. Tine for you to grow up and show your man how much you appreciate im and start doing some things for him or some other woman will!
2006-08-03 04:46:00 · answer #4 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Punish him severely! Refuse to make dinner (after all there are no clean dishes anyway) dont bathe so you are stinky when he gets home (you could break a nail on those faucets!) and go shopping, punish him by buying many new, expensive and useless things!
2006-08-03 04:25:42 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd run you a bath whilst boiling the kettle for a moist pot. While you were eating above said I'd wash yer smalls with me bare hands and knead em dry wi me forehaed on the pavement.
I'm not saying your undervalued or nowt Dodds. TELL HIM YER A MOIST AND DEMAND PRIVELIDGES!
2006-08-03 16:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just think, he must be tired of doing the same things all these days, for a change, why dont you do it and make him happy, after all life is give and take. turn for you to give and not take. dont grumble think that your behaviour is nasty and change yourself, work, after all you are young enough and that will keep you healthy.
2006-08-03 04:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by shankari n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the poor unfortunate guy was running late because someone else was running a bath for him.
2006-08-03 08:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by michaelnangle2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he woke you to tell you that, then he woke up with an attitude and you should know why.
His intentions were to upset you, so give him time to cool off from whatever happened prior to this.
YOU KNOW WHAT IT IS!
2006-08-03 04:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by dadnnelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant it be that he was running late by chance? or isnt he just simply a bit fed up with serving you and doing the chores? Do those things yourself sometimes:)
2006-08-03 04:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by VeronicaB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well does he normally? If so ask him what's going on?? it sound to me things are changing then again things may be on his mind but he should have his fair dues around his house. You can't change him really!
2006-08-03 04:22:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋