What does it really mean when your husband says that he does not like you. I have caught him cheating and both times in an argument he has said it.
2006-08-02 21:06:08 · 27 answers · asked by galfromcinci 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Step back and look at your question. Take yourself outside your body. Ask yourself, "Is this person good enough for my sister? or mother? or best friend?" If he is not good enough for them -- he is not good enough for you.
You know what you need to do. You are just looking for validation here. I hope this helps.
All the best,
~j
2006-08-02 21:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by J A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A relationship can not last only on love, it takes more than that. It takes love, respect, honesty, compassion, and compatibility. Your husband is wrong for what he is doing, and if he won't stop then you should leave him. I'm not trying to tear you away from your husband, but if it's wrong than it's wrong no questions asked. Your husband should respect you and should be honest with you just as you are with him. Your better then him and there's no changing that.
2006-08-02 21:18:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He said it twice, but he has been showing you for the past 13 years that he doesn't love you. You need to get out........... the marriage that is, if you have a home.................. put him out.
The reason he's still there is apparently the other women won't have him living with her or else he would have been gone a long time ago.
It doesn't matter "what he really meant", hold him accountable for his actions!
2006-08-02 21:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, why are you still with him? Once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater, and I know that from my own personal turmoil! If your husband is telling you he doesn't like you, that means your a free ride for him. You need to move on to better things, get your respect back, and live to learn.
2006-08-02 21:11:51 · answer #4 · answered by dreamkillerkitten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a husband tells his wife he does not like her means there should be something which would have hurt his feelings. instead of blaming him, have you ever tried to analyse yourself, see within your heart and check everything is alright. are you erring somewhere, and try to rectify your faults. see the change he will ever like you and not dislike you. cheating, it happens with many, he would have commited out of anger. start loving him, he will be always your husband. never argue always love, talk to him sweetly. your life will become ever sweet.
2006-08-02 21:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by shankari n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still married tell him what I told mine "I don't like you either now we have something in common". Then promptly go and get some empty boxes and ask him what he wants shipped to his girlfriend. Kick him to the curb.
2006-08-03 08:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he doesn't feel the way he used to. No-one deserves to hear such cruel words and neither do you. Leave him and find someone who will not only like you, but love you for life.
2006-08-02 21:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does it mean? It means he has committed adultery and needs to get his *** kicked financially by your lawyer. Good luck. And don't forget to kick the **** out of the skank he's cheating on you with.
2006-08-02 21:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u still like him? even though he cheated on u and said he doesn't like u? i think u should get divorce. there's no reason u should be with a man that doesn't like you. and there's no reason u should be sry. u guys got married so u are suppose to like eachother till ur dead or something. or at least ur suppose to tell each other wat's on ur minds. i say "DIVORCE"!!!
2006-08-02 21:12:39 · answer #9 · answered by angie :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you should have left his lame a$$ 13 years ago. What are you waiting for?
2006-08-02 21:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋