i live in a flat i took on with my then girlfriend, she left and left me with the place, she's living stress free at her mums, so why can't i. the problem is that there's no room. still i will sleep on the floor. why did my ex get it so easy?
2006-08-02 21:02:26 · 13 answers · asked by techno mentalist 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you can afford to support the flat, keep it...
If not, rent it out and live at your mothers...
Or get a flatmate... (male or female)..
2006-08-02 21:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things seem to be tough now, and your ex girlfriend appears to have a stress free life at the moment, but in years to come you will have ironed out the little challenges that you are facing at the moment, and you will move on to better things.
You will look back and think that you got through the hardship.
If you moved back with your mother you are quitting. And sooner or later you will have to move out of your mum's house and start all over again.
The important thing to remember when making your decision is nothing in life WORTH having comes easy.
Having said all that, you could look at ways in which to share the costs of running your first home.
Don't give in to the challenge - embrace it and deal with the challenges that lie ahead, anyone can quit.
Who said that your girlfriend is living a stress free life at her mum's anyway she could be living a hell. But she would never let you know that would she? She wouldn't say "hey I made a big mistake, I hate it here, you are so lucky"
Keep on keeping on.
2006-08-02 21:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living with your parents really isn't that easy, just monetarily so. Why are you so eager to sleep on a floor rather than keep the place yourself or advertise for a roommate? Imagine how much fun mum's would be when you start dating again.
2006-08-02 21:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you move back in to your Mums place I think you will feel constrained and your independence will effectively be non-existant! Stay where you are and try to get a flat mate to share the bills instead.
2006-08-02 21:07:58 · answer #4 · answered by ehc11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's life I am afraid, but there is an old saying "everything comes to he who waits". It really was better to separate now if things were not working out. I know it is hard but if you stick it out things will improve in the end and you will end up with a partner that you will be happy with and life will become easier. The best of luck.
2006-08-02 21:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, stick it out mate.
Get someone in to share the bills, (make sure they can though)!
Lifes not always easy, dont give in too easy, it shows a strength of character, you'll be proud when you get yourself sorted, (so will your ex, not that it will matter though) go for it!!
2006-08-02 21:22:19 · answer #6 · answered by junio130 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now honestly do you really want to move back to your mums... all the rules not being able to take anyone back to yours and also the shame of having to tell people you still live with your mum i think your girlfriend has got the worst end of the deal
2006-08-02 21:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by disney princess whore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting my own place was probably one of the best things that ever happened to me, I love it. Get a mate in to share the bills if you have a spare room.
2006-08-05 08:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the way you sense residing contained in the realm you stay now, shes your mum she will be able to pay interest. perhaps she is afraid of shifting, only ask her why wont she bypass yet do not argue consisting of her, it really is going to in easy words look as despite the indisputable fact that your forcing her, search for suggestion from her gently and tell her the way you sense. tell her all the benefits of shifting to this new position are,
2016-11-27 22:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one of your mates to move in. You'll have a great time and half the cost of all bills.
2006-08-02 21:09:52 · answer #10 · answered by ribena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋