I love my dad to pieces, but my step sister acts like she hates me. I give her space when Im around her but she still acts hateful with me. She lives with my dad. I live in another state. I want to go home but Im afraid of her. Dad thinks this is all in my head but she never shows any bad feelings when hes around. Im the only one she treats this way.. What can I do????
2006-08-02 21:02:03 · 25 answers · asked by cowboyskid 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
shes about 15 yrs older than me. shes tougher than me and im scared of her. she got in my face once and i almost passed out.
2006-08-02 21:24:27 · update #1
Just be a good girl. Really, I grew up fighting for a long time. I had a step dad who beat me up as a kid too. Really, you seem nice, I am too, I realised THEY have the problem. If your dad is worth anything, he'll believe you. If not, he is lying to himself. I find it close to impossible she has no other problems in life. Also, at 15 years older than you, should she be living away from dad? Or is she a leach? Pick your fights (verbally), and make sure you can escape if she can out fight you. lol. good luck sweets.
2006-08-02 21:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Put her on ignore when you two are alone and praise her extensively in front of your dad. She will then likely come to you to ask you why you act that way and unknowingly putting the reins of the situation in your hands. Give her a stunning answer that either puts her in her place or at least makes her think. That should cure her! If she starts acting like a b*tch again repeat treatment with some variation. The whole thing with hate-games and bitching is gaining the upperhand. So long as you manage to get on top of the situation you're the one with the most oversight and logically the one in command of the situation.
In short; bring out your b*tch no matter how sweet you are really.
2006-08-03 04:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by groovusy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let your step sister stop you from seeing your dad..
Sounds like she could be jealouse because whenever you go and visit since you don't live with your dad he probably gives you more attention.. She just needs to to deal with it.. and if she gets annoyed and acts like an a** to you just because your dad is excited to see you then that's her fault not your's.. don't be afraid of her she is just being a childlish coward.. I would go visit your dad and ignore her whenever she acts mean towards you It might be hard but hopefully she will get over it.. if not her loss..
2006-08-03 04:09:27 · answer #3 · answered by channille 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be afraid of her, just ignore her but don't let it show that you are ignoring her. Smile a lot when you meet her, a smile is contagious. Also she might be thinking that you don't like her, and maybe her thoughts are reflected by her facial gestures and her behavior.Remember she is the new person to your family and she needs to feel accepted by you and loved, make her feel welcome and show her that you appreciate her as a new member of the family, she might be jealous or insecure because she is not a biological daughter but you need to show her that she is a real sister to you.
2006-08-03 04:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by rabb b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u like ur step sister?if u dont and u dont care for her feelings,forget about her and go to ur dad and show him how much u love him, it is not ur problem if she hates u or not, but if u care for ur sis. feelings , go their and talk to her and try to find out what is the reason and try to show her that u like her and u have no bad feelings towards her, and she is ur sister and u must not hate each others.
Try to be nice with her,
and dont let ur dad keep those ideas in his head, as long as u r away he will , go to him and show him how much u love him
2006-08-03 04:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by jE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have already confronted your dad about it and nothing is being done or said, then it's time for you to step up to the plate. Tell your step-sister that you didn't want it to come to this and then kick the living snot out of her. I think she will get the point.
Sometimes you have to do what you have to do.
2006-08-03 04:07:41 · answer #6 · answered by a1quick57 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... Go to the supermarket.
... Buy about 10 gallons of extra virgin olive oil
... Both of you put on a bathing suit
... Pour the 10 gallons of oil into the bath tub
... Both hop in the bath tub and start wrestling
... Make sure someone is there to video tape it
... The loser has to move out of the house forever
... Send me the tape
2006-08-03 04:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to stand up to her as much as you may not want to make waves or have a confrontation, people like this only get more agressive when they see passivity. So you say "Look Sis, I'm here to stay, you need to cope." or something like that. Peace
2006-08-03 04:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She resents you. There's really not much you can do, if you didn't ive her a reason to dislike you in the first place. You could try sucking up to her, but it may not be worth it.
As the old saying goes, you can't go home again.
2006-08-03 04:07:01 · answer #9 · answered by answerator 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think jealousy might be her problem she is competing with you for your dads attention, you need to try and talk to her about how she makes you feel and find out what is going on in her head
good luck
2006-08-03 04:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by ladysunshineau 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋