how to deal with death?

Question

im a 15 year old kid and my best friend was just hit and killed by a car , im having a very hard time and i need some advice.

Answer 1

Sorry to hear that, man. I'm sure people will have said this to you before, but you can still bank on it: Your friend may not be here anymore now, but he still exists. Just somewhere else, and it's certainly no worse their than here. I can imagine that you are probably thinking "what are we here for, when stuff like this can happen to people...?" but relax. It didn't get you. It's not something tht happens a lot, you see. It was an accident, a freak occurrence. And it's not your fault - you know that, too, I know, but 'm saying it just in case.

Answer 2

I have lost a brother and a sister. So, death is no stranger to me. You have to deal with it with your eyes forward and your heart open. It is not easy by all means, believe me. But you cannot let death stop you in your tracks. Death will claim everyone eventually and you should just thank the Lord for you life every day. The purpose of death is to make life important. That is the best advise I can give you, and to keep your chin up kiddo.

Answer 3

it happens.

like the sun comes up in the morning and goes away in the evening.

When someone you do not know passes away, it doesn't matter to you. But when someone you know dies, it will affect you, in some way. When someone you care about, a friend or relation, (its nobodys business but your own) dies, the loss of not having them to grow old with and enjoying their company does affect you in some way.
Just remember what kind of friend, you friend was. And move on.

When I was 12, my best friend died in a auto accident, actually he and his sister and his father were struck by a drunk driver, all of them were killed.
Which is why I never got into drinking booze like my other classmates as I got older. I might have maybe just one beer, and nurse it all night. Thats the limit I impose on myself. Because I don't ever want to be responsible for killing someone because I was stupid and careless while driving a vehicle.

Answer 4

I'm very sorry to hear about that. How traumatic.

The truth is that there is life after this life. And also that we can see each other again one day.
Our families can be Eternal through the power of God, and so then we won't just stop existing after this life or go our seperate and single and lonely ways.

There is a way to see him again one day, and for his family to be with him again one day. I hope this truth comes knocking on your door and their door and that you accept it, no matter where it comes from (as long as it's truth).

This knowledge alone, and if you believe it and live for it, brings a huge amount of peace that is overwhelmingly joyful.

Another suggestion for you at this time right now is to pray. Pray to your Heavenly Father and in the name of Jesus Christ that he will bless you with peace and comfort and help you through this hard time and give you the strength you need to go on and deal with this and eventually be happy again. Pray for his family, too, for these things as well cuz I'm sure they need it a lot, too.

Good luck...:)

Answer 5

Pls. accept my deepest condolences.

Look to the wisdom behind the DEATH this way....

Imagine this….

If "DEATH" does not exists and there is no ending of Humans life…how many people would be living on Earth Planet since "ADAM" the first created Man ???

Thus, DEATH does reasons LIFE

Thus, we have to respect DEATH not to get terrified from hearing its nuance

Your friend can live in yr memory for ages .. and he did not die !! he has just Passed to a better Universe.

Answer 6

Friend, the loss of some one you care about is one of the worst things to accept, I know it's hard to understand I've been there also. The best thing to do is to keep your memories of your Friend safe and cherish them. Time WILL heal you. Keep on doing the things you always do accept the support of your family and Friends. Grieve in you own way and know that you are loved. talk about your feelings with those you trust

Answer 7

I'm so sorry for hearing this, but friend you may have the right to be sad for him for a while but this does not mean that your life will stop for this incident, you have to go on in this life and remember always that your friend, when died, just went out of our life to another one and this means that you will meet him someday.
And the best that I can say is that keep on the right and good track in life so that he will be happy with you when you both meet.
and remember always that God will make up you any loss you may suffer in this life, so I want you to stay near to God by praying to Him and have all loyalty only to Him (Glory be to Him).
Hoping you the best in your life.

Answer 8

i know how you feel when someone you care about or love dies, and you can't do anything about it. It's not going to be easy to get over it. My dad died in front of me, he had a sudden heart attack hit his head on the floor tiles. everybody is in the way I can't come near him. I still cry whenever I remember him. In time you feel better again but it will take some time but you need someone to talk to, a friend maybe or a spiritual leader.

And of course don't forget to pray, pour your heart out to God he will listen to your burdens and pain

Answer 9

Don't get discouraged and think about death. Think about how to deal with life and not death. Death is sure for everyone of us but don't run for it. The days ahead will have good things for you. Be courageous and face life.

Answer 10

Is there anyone that you can talk to or someone who you can confide in. This is a crucial time for you and you need to talk to someone. Do you have a councelor at your school, church, coach that you spend time with... Sometimes we need time too after we have a loss...I just want to say my heart goes out to you on your loss of your best friend.