I love my husband but it seems he is taking me for granted. I just want him to value me again.It is important to feel loved after all.
2006-08-02 20:14:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yeah it is
2006-08-02 20:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by policewoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with him. Show him how much you care. He might be completely oblivious to how he is acting. Plan a special trip for him back to the place where you were married. Hopefully it is somewhere nearby. Once there, tell him that eventhough it has been ten years, your day together... there at that place is a memory so precious. If he be a man moved at all, this should move him. Let him know how great a man he is. He should follow in kind. If he does not. This is your moment to speak from your heart about him in loving terms. The most important way is not to put him in a corner and demand why or whats wrong. If he loves you, he will remember and see what he is and what he has been doing wrong. Hopefully. If you cannot go to the place where you were married, find a place of neutral ground that has a history to the love the two of you share. Take him to the place where he proposed and propose to him. If he cannot value these... I hope others have better and different ideas. I wish you all the best.
2006-08-02 20:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by Hmmmmmm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not so old to feel that way , follow simple rule for the active happy life ,
1- Always cook good tasty food and feed him with tenderness by becoming a good host .
2- no argument , no complaint while feeding or when he is eating .
3- Maintain neat and clean house all the time , means should be fresh no foul smell in the house .
4- Always present your self , like a fresh flower , before serving food in the evening take shower , put light perfume .
5- Allow him to be alone for some time in the house , do not try to dictate anything .
6- Encourage him to tease you some time before going to bed .
Try these , hope spark will enter again in both of your life .
2006-08-02 20:24:50 · answer #3 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your girl friends for the weekend. Take a short break from family life. Or get a hobby, keep some time for your self each day ,. Tell yr husband u need a short holiday by yourself. Join a tour group etc,just break away from usual routine. U will feel better.
2006-08-02 20:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by lynnbtohs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have left your sex appeal fall over the years. He may be older but like most men his thoughts are of that great body and heated exchanges of youth. Most men fantasize over hot looking women they run across. In their little minds they are supermen sexually and sweep her off her feed and devour her. You need to set the stage for a torrid evening. Dump the kid for the weekend and set up a sneak getaway. No phone and not contact with any family members for at least a day. Dust off those dancing shoes and slip a Viagra in his drink to be sure and wake him up. Hopefully he can handle it. If not make sure that insurance is up to date. Dance your brains out and make sure your dress shows all the right spots. Don't get out of bed for at least 12 hours and use that time to do things yo may have just thought about before but never done. Take along an assortment of lotions and oils and edible body paints and be really young again.
2006-08-02 20:22:08 · answer #5 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your son out on a few dates and maybe your husband will get it. It doesn't have to be expensive and you don't have to buy your son's love. Go to the park and play frisbee, go to the library and read him a book, got to the nearest school or community center and play basketball, the pool...have fun. And exercise releases feel good spark chemicals. Don't ruin your life.
2006-08-02 20:22:40 · answer #6 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same position--11 years for us. Then I decided to do what I felt he needed from me (as much as I didn't feel like it most of the time). So I gave him a lot more sex (especially on lazy Sunday afternoons) and went out of my way to make him feel special. Guess what? He has now gone out of HIS way to baby me. Breakfast in bed....flowers...telling me how much he appreciates me and my work around the house....HIM even suggesting that we just snuggle on occassion.
They're wired different than us. Don't hold back the sex from him. (a year ago I would never thought that would have come from my mouth!) Give it a try. Your marriage is worth it...especially if you have kids.
2006-08-02 20:23:49 · answer #7 · answered by LastNerveLost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! There is fun all around you except you fail to see it, try dieting, some nice makeup, visit the beach, hang out once in a while, give yourself a treat, go to movies, just try dancing with your son in his prescence, I guess it will make him kinda jealous, ask him if he care to join you, make him want you, behave like he doesn't exist for a while, it may make him come around!
Every woman deserved to be loved and valued like life, so if you don't get it where and when you want you can give it to yourself.
Just LOVE YOURSELF!
2006-08-02 21:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it is not your fault. 90% of married woman faced like that problem. It is really fault of men.
But you need to change your life-style,You need to change your body-shade, your smell, and live like fresh.
If you have no Job, You will need get new job, outside.
You are very lucky because I am so free in this time.
2006-08-02 20:32:07 · answer #9 · answered by PiPi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something unusual out of the routine and when u out hire a Nanny for ur kid to take care of him while ur gone
2006-08-02 20:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋