I always hang out with my cousin and our friend .. and they're really pretty girls. and Im not one of the most prettiest. So its like I dont even get noticed when Im with them girls. Like people forget that Im even there. And It depresses me. So what can I do to better myself. Or at least make people notice me without being annyoing ?
2006-08-02 19:49:50 · 26 answers · asked by its_alyssalea 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Dear Alyssa,
You need not worry about this. You are fine the way you are. You need better friends. This is meaningless. A person should like you for your personality and not your looks. This is the truth.
Ouros
2006-08-05 14:59:40 · answer #1 · answered by Ouros 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on yourself and having fun. If being with them is battering your self worth, maybe you need a break but - really - looks should be the last thing on your mind if you like these people. Realize that though you might not be the prettiest girl in the group, you are special in your own right and if you're confident and outgoing - you don't have to be the prettiest to be noticed. I'm guessing you kind of retreat in your insecurity when people talk to your friends - try not to do that - try to join in and see what a result you get. Good luck.
2006-08-03 02:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lex 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all if it's depressing you maybe you need to begin to see less of your cousin/friend and make some more friends. While your doing that get some books on improving your self. Pick your best asset key in on it use it to the utmost but don't forget what you hate most about your looks improve it to the very best possible. Go to somwhere like Merle Norman get a make-over and ask questions get ideas etc. I'll bet b4 it's over ur prettier than your cousin/friend and they'll wonder why your getting All the attention. Use what you've got to the Hilt!!!
God Bless You
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2006-08-03 03:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by lilAudrey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with ugly girls.
Hey, did you ever think that this might be a good way to filter out guys who are just after you because you are pretty? If you find a guy who notices you, despite the presence of your pretty cousin and friend, who takes an interest in you etc. this might be a good guy to hang on to?
2006-08-03 02:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lets see tell your friends how you feel and try to be a little more talktive so they will nodice you but if you really think about it you don't really need there **** guys are sap and anyways your pretty in your own way you will find that someone but maybe just not right now! When my friend and I would always hang out i would always get the attenion and she would but i would always pull her by me and say this is my friend katrina and shes hella chill so yeah but its not a bad thing if the guys aren't going to look at you because your not hot then who cares there not worth your time!
Thats just the way i see it tho!!
2006-08-03 02:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by chasten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself...Real people like Real people...keep eye contact with people you meet and really listen to what they say and comment back sometimes so they know you are a good listener.
If hanging out with your cousin brings you down, don't hang with her. Do whatever you are comfortable with to improve your looks, ONLY if You want to. I don't know your age, but lipstick/gloss and mascara can go a long way!
And smile alot!! People love to be around happy people!
2006-08-03 03:14:10 · answer #6 · answered by bburgandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend a bit of money on a good hair do, put on a bit of make up and get some good fashion advise from places like Mag's and stuff changing these things can make such a difference.
there that was the shallow superficial stuff now what i would really say is that you should get noticed for your personality anyone who fails to so that is a loser and probably better of not knowing them!
2006-08-03 02:57:45 · answer #7 · answered by **star** 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self Confidence!!! It worked great for me. Don;t get me wrong, I'm by no means ugly, but my friends seemed to be prettier than me. But guess what? I had 10 times the ammount of boyfriends than they did, lol! They always asked how I got guys to take notice and I would tell them, Self Confidence and personality! ( oh and sometimes it helps to show off what you do have going for ya, lol) Good luck Hun!
2006-08-03 02:55:54 · answer #8 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to a degree it's all in you're head....my younger cousin is in really good shape & gorgeos - she hangs out with a girl thats pretty big & not very pretty & that girl gets hit on more than my cousin & gets more #'s than you could believe - its in her personality...she's super outgoing & friendly - she can talk to absolutely anyone....& the other thing is she's got the: i've got it goin on attitude and believes it... i guess guys pick up on confidence - im not sure how to be like her but i wish you luck
2006-08-03 09:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by babyjean 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, why do you say they are prettier? Isn't there something about you that you think is better than any one of them? Beauty isn't just an outside thing, you have to love yourself, and like the way you look. Confidence is far more attractive than a pretty face.
2006-08-03 02:54:47 · answer #10 · answered by tinydancer42001 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋