I am having an biracial child do you have a problem with that?

Question

I am a white female involved with a black male. For all you people that don't like that well guess what it isn't you. Also, if you must know I grew up in a black community went to black schools and the only people that ever showed me any kind of love were black people.

Anyway I am having a biracial child. It is due in December. Do you have a problem with that or would you have a problem with that if I was your mother, daughter, sister, aunt, etc.?

Ok no I don't have a problem with my child. I knew what I was doing when I was having sex. I just want to know what racist think about it. My family some are racist and when I told them I was pregnant they got a sad face on them like I messed up or something. I just wanted to know what that type of people are thinking because I think it is funny.

Answer 1

Good luck momma, I'm English and live in Japan married to a Japanese lady and we have three, get that THREE kids. OK? It is absolutely fine. They are tough kids though and can take care of themselves. Only my second daughter ever had a problem, that was only once, she beat the other kid up. Her teachers got a bit mad but they all became pretty proud of her. It's kind of case by case, not so much do we have a problem, do you have a problem, but more how your kids deal with it. God bless your children, make them beautiful, wise and strong.

Answer 2

Because they're ignorant and afraid of matters they do not recognize. Your daughter does not have to develop-up listening to ignorant racist feedback. To support her vanity you and her dad must talk-up and shield her at any time when persons make those feedback and stop to companion with persons who do. There is not anything flawed or amazing approximately biracial persons. People were assembly, falling in love with and having kids with persons from distinctive racial and ethnic organizations on the grounds that the opening of time. Here's some thing for the racists for your existence to bite on, the thought of being bi-racial is a fallacy in particular within the US. The longer your household has been within the US the better the threat you've gotten combined ancestry (ecu, local american, african, even asian) so there a only a few persons of natural ancestry to start with. Your daughter is not a few hybrid human, she's simply undeniable human and anybody who does not see her that means should not be round her.

Answer 3

No, but it sounds like you have a problem with it. Who gives a rat's *** if anyone cares. I have 2 little cousins who are mixed, and they're 2 of the most beautiful little girls I've ever seen. You don't need to give reasons on why you're with a black guy. Does he love you? Does he treat you well? That's all that matters. Stop caring what people think and be happy with your man and your upcoming little one. Congratulations.

Answer 4

First of all, congratulations.

Second, it sounds as if you've had some bad experiences, and I'm sorry for that. In the end, it doesn't matter what anyone thinks about you or your child, whether they're family or not.

Third, I have no problem with whichever color or ethnicity your child is, as long as you love him/her and treat him/her well.

Fourth, I wouldn't have a problem with it if you were related to me at all. I have 2 cousins who are the product of a biracial marriage, and I love them as much as anyone else in my family, and I love my aunt and uncle (their parents) just as much as anyone else in my family, also.

Answer 5

i suppose i cant answer that, i come from new zealand where interracial relationships arent that important i am maori and my husband is pakeha,(white) its the norm round here our dark heritage is the maori people and there arent any maoris left anyway everyone is part white etc.. i would never have a problem with anyone that was in a relationship with a person of differnt race or gender, must be hard where you are-america i imagine.
colour dosent matter round here, not like it does over there.
love is love no matter what, happiness is hard to find so live it..
~._.~

Answer 6

It sounds like that if anyone has a problem with the situation it is you, otherwise you wouldn't be bringing it up like this. In the world today no one really cares, having a mixed race is now such a norm in life. Don't make such a big deal out of it. It doesn't matter.

Answer 7

Why are people so hung up on race. We are all Gods children and color has nothing to do with it.
I care about the person as a person and not as a skin tone. Besides, alot of us "white people" , and me included, spend a small fortune every year going to tanning salons to get the look of a darker skin tone.
I wish your child health and happiness.

Answer 8

I'd be less concerned about biracial as I would about why you feel you have to defend it.

My niece has two children who are half black, and I have a cousin whose wife has two children of mixed race.

I also have a daughter who is half Mexican.

I don't look at them by race, (other than human), I look at them as warm, loving family.

Answer 9

There are a few biracial branches in our family tree and I've never had a problem with it - never really given it much thought - nor did anyone else in the family really. I wish you luck raising your child and hope you raise him/her not to think in terms of color.

Answer 10

Its a good think. Its nice to see a person show some real courage when it comes to choice. I personally dont think its going to be a problem, especially with the internet generation but some conservatives from elder generations may disapprove it. Nice going girl!!!