weve been dating for three months and i really want to do it with him but i'm also scared because i'm still a virgin(i'm 15 ok) but i really want to loose ti with him. one thing i can tell you is that his not a virgin anymore(his 17). what should i do?
2006-08-02 19:24:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
PLEASE DON'T GIRL! I KNOW YOU THINK YOU ARE IN LOVE BUT IT'S JUST LUST! YOU CAN'T POSSIBLY KNOW WHAT LOVE IS AT YOUR AGE AND TWO MONTHS IS HARDLY ENOUGH TIME 2 TELL. GUYS WILL TELL YOU WHATEVER YOU WANNA HEAR JUST TO GET THE DRAWS! ONCE THEY GET IT THEN THEY FEEL AS IF THERE IS NO REASON TO CONTINUE THE RELATIONSHIP. MAKE HIM WAIT BELIEVE ME YOU ARE WORTH IT!!!!!
2006-08-02 19:31:04 · answer #1 · answered by BREIZY2SHA 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I would be really careful if I were you. I had my first sexual experience with my then first boyfriend when I was 15 as well and now at the age of 28 when I look back, I regret that I didn't wait. He was also 3 years older than me but he did not have sex with anybody at the age of 18.
I think if I were you, I would not suggest it to him. I would think carefully if you think he is really that special to be the guy that you want to give yourself to. I think you have plenty of time in front of you to really wait for the special moment. If I could turn the clock back, I would have waited at least until I was 18. There is no need to rush. When you get older, you will consider sex to be something very special as you have waited for the really right moment.
2006-08-03 02:32:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well If you are 15 you should definatly wait!! Anything can happen so many mistakes! you dont want to b pregnant and in high school my sister's both can vouch for that. I waited at least until I was in college. I figured If anything Happened I wouldnt have to drop out of H,S i did not wanna do that sh*&^ again. Take a cold shower Masterbate whatever, just wait until your at least 18 and old enough to smoke a cigerette after.(although ciggerttes are bad for health, figure of speach.) 4sho!
2006-08-03 02:34:21 · answer #3 · answered by nikkilone1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apart of being old enough and mature enough to have sex with a person is to be able to talk about it openly . there are things like safe sex and not getting pregnant to discuss , Also he may not have had sex before , as he might hav e been talking him self up . You need to talk to him
Be brave its the only way
2006-08-03 02:30:27 · answer #4 · answered by jac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont ask, you lead him to it
Remember this wise words:
Man is the head
Woman is the neck
Head is the leader, but the neck controls it.
Play your best seduction strategy
Have fun
2006-08-03 02:39:45 · answer #5 · answered by iMagiNe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you but if you have to come on here and ask strangers for advice on how to tell your boyfriend you want to have sex with him, then you are obviously not ready to have sex. You won't need anyone's help when you are ready. You'll know it and you'll know how to go through with it. Trust me on this.
2006-08-03 02:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by cyanide_flavored_lollipop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait.whats your hurry and you are only 15 so what if he has done it.when you have done it with him he will probably drop you.and then you will no longer be a virgin and everyone will know what you have been up to .then you may have more problems than you can imagine.
2006-08-03 02:31:05 · answer #7 · answered by fraser_norton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with my ex who took my virginity..i just told him that i was ready and i wanted to have sex with him..very straightforward..you just got to ask yourself if this is really what you want because it's a big deal and you don't want to do something you're going to regret
2006-08-03 03:01:02 · answer #8 · answered by yowww kelly clarkson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make sure that you really want to. Don't regret your first time. Make sure he is the one. It's only been 3 months...
2006-08-03 02:32:48 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait ask him questions about aids and everything like that and if he pass still and your just 15 you betta talk to your parents because if you going to wind up pregnat mmmmmmmmmm.but just wait and also discuss with him to
2006-08-03 02:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait. You will regret it and after only 3 months - just wait. You'll be very glad you did, you don't realize it yet - but you'll be happier.
2006-08-03 02:28:51 · answer #11 · answered by Baghdad Pete ! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋