My friend wants an abortion. Should I help aid her?

Question

My 15 year old friend just found out she was pregnant. And she's a bit on the poor side and she needs $550 for an abortion, of course I can give it to her, but it's the moral side. I don't believe in getting an abortion, but I also don't want her parents to find out she's pregnant and they'd probably disown her and then she'd have to drop of school and so on... Should I help her? I cannot believe how much of a hoe she is! It makes me so mad! And it makes even more mad that she would come to her friend with money!

Answer 1

tell he r she needs t o speak to the father and her perants , if your old enough to spread your legs your old enough to take responsibility

Answer 2

Are you crazy? How can you even consider helping her? That's an immoral thing. At 15 she should have known that she's too young to have sex, to be a mother and (the possibility was there) to be an HIV victim. She's only realising now that she's too young and that her parents will disown her if pregnant?

If you help her with the abortion then I'm afraid both of you are murderers and you're going to answer to God when judgment day comes. Seven things that God hates and one of them is harming innocent blood.

Talk your friend out of it. Abortion brings a lot of problems like the possibility of not bearing any child anymore in the future, infections, loss of blood and if not correctly done, death. So think about it.

Answer 3

well i cant tell you what to do you and have to make that desicion for yourself. If i was in your situation i personally dont believe in abortions and have you explain that she would be killing a person. I think she should tell her parents and if her parents disown her then they arent good parents. Im sorry if her parents were that worried about her getting pregnant then they should have cared enough for their daughter to put her on birth control. I dont think her parents will disown her they love her and will be very upset but everything will be okay. have you talked about her giving the baby up for adaption. there are options for her. If she gets an abortion now she might think its okay to have an abortion another time. I dont think she can legally get an abortion without a parents consent because she underage and under 17. please talk her out of this she will be killing a baby.

Answer 4

First of all if she is only 15 i think she needs her parents consent to be able to have an abortion.Second it sounds like she is really not ready to become a parent.Raising a child is hard work and costs lots of money.Third no you should not put up the money.Its nice that u are her friend but its not up to you.She needs to go to her parents to resolve this issue.Dont get mad there is nothing you can do about it be her friend and guide her through it.Youd be surprised at how her parents would react im sure they love her and would do the right thing.

Answer 5

Yes. You should help her. She is in intense mental torture and trouble as well as she is on the poor side. Please give her $550 to her so that she could get abortion. It is moral side of human being.These are moral values and should be upheld at at all cost. I think she has been maletreat ed with the b/f who was not sincere with her. It was the moral duty of her b/f who had intercoused her sexually and she became pregnant. He should have come to her help at this time and should have come forward to get the abortion. Please also conceal this fact from her parents otherwise she would have to discontinue her studies in school. It should also be made clear to her that if she does sexual intercouse in future,and her b/f should use condome to avoid pregnancy. It would be best if she avoids it by her ownself and do not indulge in sexual intercouse.

Answer 6

no don't do it she will regret it later. her age doesn't mean anything if she really love her child she shall fight for it until even if she has to confront her family. this child will bring her happiness and you helping her donig an abortion will make you a sinner in god's face please don't do it. it is not just that she might after doing so.advise her that there is a god up there and no matter what her parents will accept their child and grandchild.for her she sees it as a burden or a mistake maybe but keeping the child is better than doing an abortion.god may have wanted for this child to be born and killing it will stay in her conscience,later if she plans to have another child she might be able to have any.

Answer 7

Of course and you sould help her!!!! Why are you asking!!!???She's 15 years old, she's pregnant and very scared and you are (probably) the one person you can (must) help her. Don't leave her to destroy her life for a stupid mistake! Come on man she's 15!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!She has lot of years and dreams in front of her and it mustn't destroy from a baby. She's very young. Give her the money and stand by her. She needs you the most. It's a very sensitive moment. Be there for here because i'm sure she would be there for you...
Good luck!

Answer 8

some friend you are calling her a hoe, I suppose you are still a virgin yourself huh?

what she needs is someone to be her FRIEND, not judge her, possibly she doesnt even want to abort, but feels scared and that she has no choices, if you are too damn judgemental to help her out, direct her to someone that can help her.

contact a local social services agency. explain the situation, and in the process quit calling your friend a hoe. Everyone makes mistakes, someday this could be a family member of yours that this happens to.

http://www.abortionfacts.com/

http://www.optionline.org/

Answer 9

tell her no.Her kid needs to see the world not see the heaven.She needs to give the kid a life to live there life.if she does her kid could of been someone if she did that. her baby could of been a actress or actor.She does not have to drop out of school if she has a kid.Her parents would get mad at her.Very mad but think of the bright side.The laugh the baby has and all other stuff about the kid.Tell Her NO!!!!.
tell why she should keep the kid and tell wat would happen if she got abortion.Because if the pill does not work for the abortion then they have pillers to rip and kill the baby out.

Answer 10

I'm going to be blunt here, but please understand that is out of genuine concern for both you and your friend. If you give her money to abort her child, you will be an accomplice to the murder of the unborn baby. You don't want that on your conscience for the rest of your life. In addition, abortion is very dangerous for your friend's physical and emotional well-being.

It is against the law for a public school to force a student to drop out because she is pregnant. She can continue going to school. After the baby's birth, she can place her child for adoption or take advantage of the many community services available to her.

Yes, her parents will be upset. However, the vast majority of parents love and support their children even when they are furious with them. Most likely, they will come around and love their grandchild in the end. If not, there are safe places for your friend to stay (see help section below).

Please share this information with your friend:

Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html

A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html

Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com

Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
http://www.lifeissues.org/ultrasound/11weeks.htm

Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html

Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html

Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.standupgirl.com/site/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=218&Itemid=40

Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm

Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp

Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php

Advice on Telling Parents About a Pregnancy:
http://lifehouse.glorifyjesus.com/questions/pregnancy/tellingparents.html

Answer 11

It's your choice. You are not responsible for your friend's choices, or for her family's response.

I think you should at least wait and see what her family says: if anyone is going to pay for the abortion it should be them. In real life, most family's don't disown their daughters when they get pregnant.

Don't do it if it makes you angry to be the "rescuer", because it will sour the relationship.

Also, if she is unhappy with the effects of the abortion, you will be an easy target for blame.