Hey well First of I am not gay, bi, curious or anything else like that. I don't know what the hell happened. I was hanging out talking with my fiance's dad got really drunk, and the next morning I woke up naked in bed with him. I know what you're gonna say that how do I know that we actually did anything together. Trust me I know. I wont say how, but I know. I didn't say anything to her dad when I woke up. He was still asleep so I just left. I just don't know what to do. We're getting married next month. I know I have to tell her. I also know it's really gonna **** things up. I just don't know how to tell her, or what to do. Also, I don't know how to face her dad, and discuss it. Someone please help me with this mess. If anyone has any advice or can relate to my situation I'd love to hear it.
2006-08-02 18:55:54 · 3 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
tell her you and her dad was drinking and drank to much and you both passed out simple. she will understand this he is her dad after all . my opion [oh good luck on your marrage] my opion ?
2006-08-02 19:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, calm down...it's okay. Second...obviously you were a little curious, even if only in the back of your mind. You need to talk to her dad, and be like "hey, what happened that night?" Then you both need to decide if/how to tell his daughter. I don't know how she's going to respond, but assure her as much as you can that it's her that you love and her you want to spend forever with. Good luck with that, and if you need anyone else to bounce ideas off of, or just a listening ear, email me at harmonious_mouse@yahoo.com Good luck!
2006-08-03 02:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Monique Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cant remember well maybe there was more in you drink than alcohol. Is that possible? If so your not at fault. If not then I would not tell her. It happend once and you dont remember the act. As long as there is no chance of STD's then well I would not say anything. EVER!!!!
2006-08-03 02:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋