2006-08-02 18:21:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Ken, your wife suffers from low self esteem. Perhaps in the past she has experienced someone cheating on her (or her mother) and does not trust (you or anyone). I would recommend some type of counseling, this way she can see that you are concerned over your relationship and want to make it work.
2006-08-02 18:27:42 · answer #1 · answered by wanninonni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not cheating then i would say the two of you should get counseling. Have you ever cheated on her before? Did anything happen that would be considered wrong? If she is constantly accusing you of it there must be something that happen. Even if it was a long time ago. If that is the case, then you should go above Board so that she will know that you are not cheating. It takes time and patience to get the relationship back on the right track after a violation.
2006-08-03 01:50:00 · answer #2 · answered by candlelight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some time together to rekindle the marriage. Ask her out on a date. Dinner and dancing. Pay a little more attention to her. If you are doing nothing wrong drop the subject and let it go. Forgive her paranoia and work on your relationship maybe she is just feel ling neglected. Go slow with the romance so it doesn't add to her suspicion but work on the relationship until you see results.
God bless and remember if you were married in a church than God is the third party in the relationship and can be called on to help you.
2006-08-03 01:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Makemeaspark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. If you are not cheating her ask HER TO PROVE that you are cheating her. Also you can give alibis, witnesses or proofs to show that you are not cheating. If she is still not convinced and you are not really cheating, ignore her allegations. If the situation is unbearable then let her know that her behaviour could lead to divorce. I hope this works. Best of luck.
2006-08-03 01:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is really insecure. Some people never get over that. You just have to ask yourself if you can live with this particular imperfection. Nobody is perfect.
2006-08-03 01:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Mandalawind 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is insecure and possibly paranoid. Get marriage counseling. If that doesn't help, you should get out.
2006-08-03 01:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to stick "CHEATERS" on your tail to prove your innocence. if your not up to that, just talk with her and tell her that you would never cheat on her and that you love her (all that lovey marriage stuff)
2006-08-03 01:26:49 · answer #7 · answered by scooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋