is he gay?

Question

my bf likes anal sex performed on him by me, we use a strap on or toys of course, does that mean he's gay or is that a normal sexual thing for men?

Answer 1

MY MAN LOVES IT...JUST BECAUSE SOMETHING FEELS GOOD SEXUALLY DOES NOT AT ALL MEAN THEY ARE GAY, YOU SHOULD BE THANKFUL HE IS MAN ENOUGH TO ADMIT WHAT FEELS GOOD TO HIM, MOST MEN ARE SO HOMOPHOBIC, THEY ACT STUPID ABOUT SUCH THINGS

Answer 2

For some men...yes that could mean he's gay. For others it could mean he has male on male fantasies but has no desire to actually be with a man. By doing anal with you it's a safe way to act them out. Lots of girls have fantasies about the same sex but are not bi or lesbian. Then again...and this is the most likely answer...he just enjoys anal. Guys have this wonderful little thing inside of their butts called a prostate. When stroked or fondled it gives intense pleasure. Kind of like we get from our clit. Some claim (and I have seen it with my own eyes) that certain guys can get off almost immediately this way! Hey...if it feels good why not? My hubby is as straight as they come and he looooves anal! I wouldn't start to worry until he drags you out to gay bars just to see what they're like, you find gay porn or his hair and clothes are better than yours! Take care and I hope you have an amazing day!

Answer 3

What the hell is normal any more?

I figure if he's gay, he should get a boyfriend, right. He likes being with you, unless you're making all of this up.

Of course, what does that make you, if you are putting on strap ons and sodomizing some guy? I wonder.

Answer 4

do you like anal? are you gay? then there is your answer. Men and women can both enjoy anal and it has nothing to do with what gender they prefer sexually... it is just a kink. We all have them whether certain people like to admit it or not.
And since you felt the need to ask that about him you apparently have no respect for him, so whether he was gay or not (which he is probably not) you need to break up with him, because you are wasting both of your time staying with someone you obviously don't have any true feelings for.

Answer 5

NO!..IF not he wouldnt ask you to perform it on him. He just likes some adventure and what makes it more exciting is that your the one doing it. Guys do have a thing for butt-*******, whether it be a girl or guy. Guys like it becasue they have their very own 'g-spot' that can make them ***, so its probably that good feeling that makes him want to keep doing it.
Every guy is individual. You cannot rate your guy as normal or not normal against others dear. Its individual preference.
As long as you feel comfortable doing it and he does, then who cares?

Answer 6

Not all men are Gay just because they find it pleasureable to have anal sex. Though that is a common thought. Ususally a man has to be attacted to men, and not just the sex part, to make them guy.

Answer 7

Maybe he's a masochist, in to S&M, likes to role play as a women, or gay. If he is gay you can tell if you notice if he is intrested in other guys, and your gut feeling. If you belive so ask him about it, and tell him you don't want him to hurt you by lieing.

Answer 8

well....alot of guys don't like to admit it but there is a nerve that is very stimulating in the anus so alot of guys like it when they get a finger put in there, but a strap on that's a different answer.

Answer 9

It just means he knows where his g-spot is and is willing to go there.

It's probably just a fetish, if he was gay he'd probably be with a guy.

Answer 10

It sounds as if there may be an issue there, it could be that he's bisexual. If it's making you uncomfortable then talk to him about it. Good Luck