Just to clarify, my cousin is 20, female, and 20, and I'm 13, male, but we're both about the same height. So I tell everyone that I'm going to take a shower, so no one comes into the room. So I'm taking a shower, and all of a sudden my female cousin comes into the shower, and says, "Well, wouldn't it be smarter for me to take a shower at the same time as you, so we'd both get showers, and we wouldn't waste as much water!" So she takes off her shirt, takes off her jeans, takes off her thong, and then takes off her bra! I can't help but get a bonerand feel totally embarrased. I finally finish showering with her. After I'm changed, I'm feeling very disturbed. The next day she has to go back to college, and gives everyone a kiss goodbye, but when it comes to my turn, she grabs me, pulls me close, our lips touch, and she sticks her tongue really deep into my mouth for about 10 seconds, and then says she'll miss everyone. Then, we head home. What should I do?
2006-08-02 18:07:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is ridiculous. You don't write as a 13 year old or as someone who finds this ****ing nasty. If you did, you would have freaked out and jumped out of the shower and ran out of the bathroom screaming. Same with the goodbye. What you're saying is that she said goodbye to everyone else, then in front of everyone, french kissed you? If not, then she said goodbye to everyone else, sought you out, stuck her tongue down your throat and you stood there and took it? Didn't pull away, run, scream, or shove her? You sound like a bored 20 year old with a sick sense of humor looking for attention. If not, tell your parents and call CPS.
2006-08-02 18:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by stseukn 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The four most important words of your question is "I'm feeling very disturbed." What happened was illegal, and immoral. Follow your basic instincts of right, and wrong. Evidence of being aroused Is a normal bodily function, in an abnormal situation. I can only sumise you were in some state of shock, and unable to stop what was happening. In future dealings with your cousin, be on guard for something like this to happen again. The best defense is a good offence. She is acting out, try talking to her, there is a good chance someone made her feel disturbed at some time.
2006-08-02 18:30:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I am going to assume you are telling the truth here. First of all, you have already established that you feel uncomfortable, which you have every right to be.You were taken advantage of and that is unacceptable. She has no right to violate you in such a way and you should talk to someone you trust about it. This is tough when you are dealing with family, trust me I know. Usually your family will take sides and pick on who they believe. At first you might feel as though it was your fault for saying something, but it isn't. You have to get this resolved or she will continue to violate you and you will suffer from serious psychological problems that will be that much harder to deal with as you get older. Now matter how old you are, you have rights. Especially when it comes to your body. You need to tell somebody to get this resolved before it turns into something bigger.
2006-08-02 18:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anthony L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a boy, yet even as i changed into 14 (i'm 16 now) i changed into bullied by ability of this properly-known guy because i changed into the in easy words boy who did not supply a damn about football. i did not see what changed into so exciting about it, so that they talked about as me names, and threw notes at me with abuse on them. What you need to do is: a million. Confront them and say you're harm about what they are keeping. 2. Say it really is hurtful behaviour and it has to give up. 3. Say it really is gotten out of hand and if she would not give up it you'll tell a instructor. believe me, she'll be begging you no longer to inform.
2016-11-27 22:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her and tell your parents. Thats very nasty. Your parents probably will get police involved in that situation because next time she'll probably do more to you.
2006-08-02 18:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by thugmisses0084 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents right away. No one should do that to you not family, or friends without your permission. If you can't talk to your parents then talk to another adult you can trust. Good luck
2006-08-02 18:15:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is considered "indecency with a child" and extremely illegal. You should tell your parents. What if you are not the only child at risk?
2006-08-02 18:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about a lock on the bathroom door?
2006-08-02 18:16:49 · answer #8 · answered by sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sucks for you. now if it were me, then she wouldn't be my cousin, and id be free for whatever, but good luck to you. maybe you could move down south and become a hillbilly couple.
2006-08-02 18:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm..tell your parents and stay faaaar away from your sick cousin.
2006-08-02 18:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋