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I've been going out with my girlfriend for about 5 months. We met at college and she had told me that she strips on weekends to make money for school. She sees it only asa job and thinks every guy that goes there is nothing more than a looser. I recently went to a strip club with some friends while in Jersey and was propositioned for sex. Is it that easy? and does stuff like that happen? Should I dump her?

2006-08-02 18:05:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

5 answers

sexual promiscuity can occur at strp bars.
my advice to you, go see her show! lol
that way one guy in the audience won't be a looser.
tell her first.
then go again. and don't tell her.
see if there's any difference.
remember... the time you tell her, you're just there for her, the other time... see what happens.
k?
lol it might even be fun...
...
or you could ask her to strip for you...
that might be fun...
...
so the easiness of one stripper doesn't mean they all are loose.
so no, you shouldn't dump you girlfriend because she's a sex worker. you should dump her if she's cheating on you, having sex elsewhere... I suppose... would be grounds as that's dangerous for you!
ok
it's your morals
but don't you feel the least little bit attached to this girl?
don't you *love* her?
in the USofA what's the point in a relationship if there's no love. that's the curent state of affairs
conform!
conform!
lol no it's ok to think outside the box
but that one is sufficiently socially progressive that conformity is rather a good thing.
...
ok so you're dating a stripper
didn't you know this when you started?

2006-08-02 18:16:22 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0 0

Dating a stripper comes with a ton of risks, dude. Ever watched Jerry Springer and see how many of those strippers end up breaking up families and stuff? Girls who strip do have sex for money and really actually do drugs, surprisingly. Needless to say, you're taking on a big risk with this girl, cause you don't know if she whores or not, and it can be pretty dangerous with all those diseases out there.

If you really want to see exactly how loyal your girlfriend is, send in about 3 of your most trusted male friends that she doesn't know, and tell them to try to get her "attention" if you know what I mean. If she's one of those that solicit sex so easily, you'll find out through that method, if you really DO want to find out. If not, then she won't know, and you'll know that you got a one-in-a-million stripper.

A word of advice, most girls who start stripping in order to get money from school usually end up dropping out of school to pursue stripping, because they tend to like the party and sex lifestyle a lot more rewarding than college.

2006-08-03 01:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by minerva779 2 · 0 0

I have a friend who is a stripper. She does it to pay for college right now. She tells me that there are many strippers who do drugs and who let men touch them (in some very extreme ways. mind you). She is the rare one and is referred to as a prude by the others. If your girl has dignity, she can keep her head above it, but that's rare. Many of the strippers my friend works with are married and regularly performing sex acts on strangers on the job. It's a risk. Do you trust her?

2006-08-03 01:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by Michael D 3 · 0 0

Nothing wrong with it as a fairly well paying part time job if that's all she does.

Unless you are prepared to support her, it not reasonable for you to insist she give up her job, and dumping her for this reason alone would't make sense unless it bothers you so much that you can't
be in a relationship with her.

The fact that she is honest with you about what she does is a good sign.

2006-08-03 01:15:47 · answer #4 · answered by lapaul 2 · 0 0

Strippers make damn good money! and they are not all hookers.
I dated one for over a year,I never went to see her dance,because I didnt want to get p'd off. Besides,she never came to watch me work.
if she sees it as just a job,then accept her word as such.She probably hates it just as much as anyone else hates their job.But how can she turn down that kind of money,while she has the body to make it!

2006-08-03 01:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by throatp0ker 2 · 0 0

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