and why do they always come out of the woodwork when you are attached?
2006-08-02 17:54:59 · 39 answers · asked by ROCKER CHICK 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
thats how it always happens, its like they have a special sense and know when your not available, maybe it is the attraction to try and obtain the unattainable.
2006-08-03 15:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Cherry Red 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have definitely had instant chemistry when I've met some ladies for the first time. Just a real electricity between the two of us. Yep it always happened when I was in a relationship. Married now and it happens once in a blue moon. I guess when you're finally with someone and not looking, you must relax enough to start attracting the opposite sex. Murphy's Law anyone? Even as a married guy it still feels good to have it happen. "Still got it factor". Just don't act on it or tempt yourself.
2006-08-02 18:00:05 · answer #2 · answered by Big K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had sex the same night that I met a guy. We hit it off and spent all night talking. Then we spent 3 and half hours having sex. I was shocked at my behavior, at the time I was attached. I then left my boyfriend for him. We were together for 2 years. Cute guys always come out when we are attached or looking bad. I can be cute all day and see no cute guys, but the moment I leave the house in sweats I see nothing but cute guys. I think they wait for things like that.
2006-08-02 18:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Angel365 Devil365 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it happened to me only once... And I've been happily married to the guy for almost seven years! You remember your SAT prep class, right? Always follow your gut when you're not sure? I'm glad I listened...
No, I wasn't attached when it happened. But I figure that when the right person comes along you better jump at the chance to be happy for the rest of your life (or at least a good part of it). If you meet the right one while you're attached, maybe the one you're with isn't the right one after all...
2006-08-02 18:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! Her name was ***** and she turned me into a rubbery lump of jell-o. I was stuttering and my heart was pounding. This never happens to me because I'm a pretty self assured fellow and a total gentlemen to ladies.
I dated her for a beautiful 6 months and then her favourite brother got kill by his wife and that devastated her so badly that even I couldn't help her get over it.
We parted excellent friends and the truth is, to this day, I am deeply in love with her and if I hadn't married my present wife, I would have sought her for matrimony.
She lives in the same town as me that I moved back to last September and because of our deep feelings for each other, we've purposely avoided contact.
I love my present wife dearly and would not leave her or be unfaithful, but oh how my heart pounds when i think of this other girl.
Thanks for letting me get that off my chest.
2006-08-02 18:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by krazykritik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A) Yes.
B) I must have done terrible things in my previous lives, and this seems to be my punishment.
(Note: i am not currently attached, but the women who come out of the woodwork *are* attached.....so it is kind of the *inverse* of your scenario.) (And that truly does suck.)
2006-08-03 07:09:24 · answer #6 · answered by missinglincoln 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me. I was engaged when I met someone else at work. He was semi good looking, and had a sparkling personality. After trading insults for a few weeks, he quasi asked me out... Long story short, we were married a year later!
2006-08-02 17:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by mediocre_poet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i have had that happen before, and it does seem that every hot available person comes along when you are attached. i've learned to keep the horndog part of my personality in check, and it's fun getting to know people you have a "connection" to, some can turn out to be really good friends. i know, i'm a sap.
2006-08-02 23:59:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to me alot I look at girl and think she is the most beautiful girl in the world and I think I might be in love but by the time I see what the girl is really like on the inside and not the outside I usually realize it's not love it's only lust.
2006-08-02 18:28:05 · answer #9 · answered by loot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few times
2006-08-02 18:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Judas Rabbi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and they do because when you are attached you are feeling confident and not "desperate" so to speak. By being yourself you will always get more attention than trying to force people to look at you.
2006-08-02 17:59:07 · answer #11 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋