i have normal week end lately espacially after givng birth to my baby , we {me and my husband} stopped being as romantic as we were, we used to have great weekedns , pickniks , going outs , just turn on the car , put on some clothes and take off ... now i have to bring the dipers, bottel, food , ....etc ...and not to stay late because she might get over tierd by skipping an important sleeping houres ...she is 6 months, adoorable and beautifull , only i want US back !!!!!!! how can i have him back , he told me " its not the same any more , you are allways taking care of our beautifull baby , we stopped being us} ....
2006-08-02 17:54:58 · 10 answers · asked by delayla 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It does get easier as baby gets older, but you HAVE to find a way for couple time. Get a sitter in on one night, or Granny and Grandpa, even quick outings by yourselves is really helpful. Remember, that dates can happen during the day, when baby is easier to take care of.
2006-08-02 17:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
By having a baby, your making that sacrafice. Having a beautiful baby that you have is a gift from God, and it should be charished. You want the baby to grow up good and strong, with strong morals, so don't neglect it just becuase you want to get with your husband. Once you have put your child in the crib. Get as far asa away as possible to make sure you dont wake him/her, and give it a go. Just make sure you have a baby monitor around so if something does come up, you can assist. Also, try getting a sitter. A couple needs time alone sometime, maybe just once a week or so, hire a sitter, and go have some fun with your hubby. Take care and God Bless!!
2006-08-02 18:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize very much with your situation. I have been there. It changes everything when you go from 2 to 3.
The good news is that you are bottle feeding now. So, you need to start training a grandparent, brother, sister, aunt, uncle, best friend, or nanny on caring for her. Once that's done, you can book a room somewhere and have a nice evening out followed by a nice evening in. Be sure to talk a lot, smooch a lot, and you-know-what a lot.
Good Luck.
2006-08-02 18:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..tat's happen to me too. we had a bb boy and i stop working to look after him. Everyday looking after bb is quite tired. And we had a bb gal and life really different. Now all our focus is on our children. What we did on our weekend is to go shopping but i will oni bring one of the bb out..haha.. as u say have to bring pamper, milk and etc... but tat will pass when they grow up. Once in a while we will go to the park and of cos have to prepare alot of thing but hey is a family outing mah. ;p
2006-08-02 18:02:05 · answer #4 · answered by 7kiki6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Babies come with responsibilities and you have to do them maybe you can get a babysitter and have a night out with your guy or have the family watch your baby and go rent a hotel or something
2006-08-02 17:59:02 · answer #5 · answered by Sammie Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to have a honeymoon ASAP.
That's all I got...
Oh, and I got a date for Friday night, and free Saturday night, in case you were wondering ;)
2006-08-02 17:59:59 · answer #6 · answered by b_bearz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
babies are so cute!! just wait 'till your baby gets older, and hire a sitter, so you two can have a super romantical evening together!
2006-08-02 18:03:41 · answer #7 · answered by momo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im going partying this weekend. no kids. hehe
2006-08-02 18:04:26 · answer #8 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
2006-08-02 17:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by mitt w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
die
2006-08-02 18:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by mantra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋