What should I do?

Question

Ok, about a year back I was at my friends house party, and I met some fine girl, I'm talkin REALLY beautiful, we made out etc. I didn't think she would "put out" so I did what I would normally do at these kind of house parties, which would be to put a roofie in their drink (something to make them pass out). So she did, and I had sex with her upstairs in the bathroom and I ejaculated inside of her, now my friend was "seeing" this girl which I did not know about, and about 3 weeks later made her his girlfriend and what not, come to find out 2 months later (I went on vacation) that she is pregnant! I am an African American, he is white, the baby is mixed race, but is more light skinned. I KNOW this is my child, and I don't know whether or even HOW to break this to my friend, his face lights up with joy everytime he hugs and kisses this child.

Answer 1

Wow...what a jerk you are.

Answer 2

Whew! You got yourself INTO it. I hope this has taught you that raping girls is not the thing to do. Just ask, the worst she can do is turn you down. There are always girls around willing to have sex if you know what to say. There's really nothing for it but to man up. As soon as possible. Yesterday would have been better. The older that child gets the darker s/he is going to get. I had friends who almost divorced because they were both medium skinned and their baby came out damn near white. For a year he treated her terribly accusing her of cheating while she argued she had been faithful. Finally he went and got a paternity test because he was so sure she was lying. The baby was his and not 6 months later started getting his color in. Now that child is 5 and almost the same shade as his parents. You're going to have to fess up to your suspicions and what you've done. In a nutshell, you raped his girl and are probably the father of the child of his heart. You've tarnished what he thought has been exclusively his and untarnished. Make sure you know what you want to do before you ever have this conversation with him. He is probably going to want you out of their lives forever. He may want a paternity test and if it comes up you are the father he may want you to give up your parental rights. If the girl doesn't know what you've done to her, he's definitely going to want you to tell her the horrific news, if she does, there are going to be even more problems. Either way he's going to want to hear the full explanation and some apologies. you're going to need reasons why you thought it was a good idea to rape a girl, even if you didn't know she was his interest, unless of course he's a rapist too, then you'll probably just have to apologize. If you want to still be friends with him, it's going to be difficult to regain his trust and he's probably not going to want you around the girl or the baby at all. A very difficult situation you've cooked up for yourself. Good Luck

Answer 3

What you did with that poor girl was wrong. If you wanted to have sex with her you should have asked her and if she had said 'no' it should have been enough. How would you like it if someone put a roofie in your drink and then you'd woken up with someone sticking their private parts inside you? I mean did it even occur to you to ask her the permission to use her body? Anyway, I think you should stay away from this kid, if you really are a father...you don't deserve to be by the way that you contributed in bringing this child to the world. Stay awaay and let your friend have his peace and your child a good life.

Answer 4

There is a very simple way to solve this. A similar thing happened to me once:

I got in one little fight and my mom got scared, she said, "You're moving in with your auntie and uncle in Bel-Air!" I whistled for a cab and when it came near the license plate said "Fresh" and it had dice in the mirror! If anything I could say that this cab was weird, but I thought, nah, forget it, yo homes! To Bel-Air!" I pulled up to the house about 7 or 8 and I yelled to the cabby, "Yo homes! Smell ya lata!" Looked at my kingdom, I was finally there to sit on my throne as the prince of Bel-Air.


I hope this helped :)

Answer 5

ask yourself.. what would you do if your the father? just shut up if you dont have any planned for the baby.. the mother knows the posibility so if you want you can try to talk to her and if you want ask for paternal test.. but for me honesty is still the best policy coz the earlier the better the other guy wil know the truth coz truth will come out sooner or later...

Answer 6

Wow! Maybe your friend made out with her also so she got pregnant to him but I'm not really sure... Maybe two guys with one wife... It's kind of weird... Just ask the girl if the boy had se* with her...

Answer 7

You should be ashamed of yourself, you piece of $hit. Don't say anything to your friend--he obviously loves the kid more than you ever could. Telling him will only f**k the child up for life.

Answer 8

i don't really give a **** about your problem but you need to see what she wants to do which is something you should have done before what you did to that girl was dirty and you should be hung by your balls for doing it and i bet she thinks the same go to hell or should i say that's where your going

Answer 9

Well FIRST OF ALL....I would keep your mouth SHUT if you dont feel like going to JAIL for RAPE and POISONING!!! You are one stupid motherf-er!!! Keep your stupid idiotic mouth shut and let your friend (who I'm assuming is more honorable then YOU) enjoy his girlfriend and HER baby!!! Go GET A LIFE!

Answer 10

well, you are a big jerk for taking advantage of her. you should be arrested. go ahead and tell them, your friend should know what kind of scum bag he is hanging out with, then you can pay some child support.

Answer 11

u er see me myself and irene?, dude is ur friend slow too?, btw if you gave some girl a roofie u are a real loser.