MET THIS GUY 3MONTHS AGO WE ARE BOTH MARRIED. WE STARTED E-MAILING AT FIRST EVERYNIGHT THEN WE STARTED CALLING EACH OTHER EVERYDAY THEN WE FINALLY MET. ONCE WE MET EVERYTHING WAS GOING FINE. HE EVEN TOLD ME THAT HE LOVES ME. A MONTH AGO HE STOPPED E-MAILING BUT WE STILL TALKED EVERYDAY UNTIL HE TOLD ME THAT HIS WIFE IS GETTING SUSPICIOUS SO THAT STOPPED FOR AWHILE THEN WE STARTED TEXTING EACH OTHER AND NOW THAT STOPPED BUT I STILL CALL HIM EVERYDAY AT WORK. THEN HE SAID I SHOULDN'T CALL HIM AT WORK BECAUSE HE IS TO BUSY. BUT IN THIS TIME I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM. IT ALL STARTED AS A SEXUAL THING NOW I CAN'T STOP THINKING ABOUT HIM. WE STILL TALK AND WE MEET EVERY SO OFTEN, BUT DEEP DOWN I KNOW IT'S JUST A GAME TO HIM WHAT TO DO?
2006-08-02 17:47:22 · 9 answers · asked by pamper8888 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why don't you try putting the energy that you spend on thinking about this guy, into salvaging your relationship with your own husband? Of course you are going to think about him. We always let things that don't belong to us have power over us, especially when it comes to the opposite sex, and illicit affairs.
Don't think that he is going to leave his wife for you. Besides, if he did, what makes you think he wouldn't eventually leave you for someone else? Some habits are hard to break, but promises are easy to break! You need to do some serious soul searching, and I don't mean about him either! You need to stay away from the on-line friendships, especially being married. Whether your marriage is happy or not(and I'll assume that it isn't now), it sounds like he is coming to his senses about his marriage, or at least about his affair with you. You may get left" hanging in the wind", with no boy friend and no husband! . This is not a judgment of you, but a voice of experience! If it is a game, you will not be a winner! Heartache that you may bring into your own marriage, is going to hit you right back. Things done in the dark will be brought to light! Choose wisely!
2006-08-02 18:17:34 · answer #1 · answered by macfifty06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is Love is always confusing and u should never let a guy feel better than ur standards.I mean think about it is this really love if he's playing a game.It takes 2 to love and u should makesure u understand that and that he knows u understand that and also that u understand he's not better than your standards.
Love is not a game to play
Love is not a word to say
Love does not start in
March and end in May
Love is tomorrow,
yesterday,and
today.
2006-08-03 01:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by devotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone flakes out on a marriage, dont expect them not to do the same to you. Besides there are alot of things good about having having someone who is married: they only take as much time as needed for each of you to have the well needed fun. If it's any more than that, it's all wrong.
2006-08-03 00:57:15 · answer #3 · answered by pjordan1182 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you get involved with a married man, How would you like it if your husband would be with another woman don't think you would like it very much NOW WOULD YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
stop this game???? I know someone who's been with a married man for 5 years and you know what he never left his wife, but he left the girl for another girl not to mention she's a blonde woman.....ONCE A CHEAT ALWAYS A CHEAT
2006-08-03 01:20:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like it's hot. He's using you as a vicarious thrill that's similar to having an affair. He'll never be with you and doesn't want to tell you that so he can continue to get what he wants.
Find a real man who you can see face to face, not a cyber lover.
2006-08-03 00:52:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to turn your feeling off for someone that you care about but thats what you need to do. Instead of posting this question you should be talking about how to save your marriage.
2006-08-03 00:55:11 · answer #6 · answered by Dana J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both married. I can't believe you did this behind your husband's back. That's awful.
2006-08-03 00:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r both @ssholes. both of u should end up alone.b@stards.
2006-08-03 01:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM AND YOUR HUSBAND SHOULD DUMP YOU 2
2006-08-03 00:58:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋