PLEASE GIVE ME SINCIER ANSWER.....We both are from belongs to same cast. From India & from religious family. We got engaged & soon geting married. It's a Love marriage from his side & arrange frm my side. He Loves me so much. Before our engagement by his own he told me about his past that he had 2 / 3 puppy love but I am his True Love & now he really want to seteled down & won't do anything that hurt me. He told me that when he was abrod he had a Girl friend & they used to go for outing & they were good friend. Now he is working in another country. Recently I came to know (he don't know about it ) that they had an affair, this thing he didn't say to me. May be he is getting scared of me to say that. Now he is working abroad (that girl is not their) & I am in India. He comes after 6 months to India for 2 months leave. I want to know whether he will Faithul with me after marriage. Will he Love me that much after marriage how he Loves me now.
2006-08-02 17:46:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes...
if he loves you, then he loves you.
a marriage should only make him love you all the more.
now what you need to do is tie him down. make him know, that even if he works ten thousand miles away, you're still right there beside him loving him. call him. e-mail him. write him letters. anything. make sure he has at least one picture of you with him.
the only other thing I must ask, is this, would it be possible for you to go with him overseas after your marriage? that would be ideal for your relationship, however, if this isn't possible, make sure you're "there" and keeping an eye on him.
guilt is a powerful weapon, as is love.
you can use both on him.
be strong.
keep him close
and if he loves you, then he loves you. forever. no matter where, no matter what.
...
at least, that's how I feel about it.
2006-08-02 17:54:59 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 9⤊ 4⤋
I wish that I had a 100% guarantee to give you but in love and life there are no guarantee's. I can tell you that if he hasn't been completely honest with you then chances are he want be later. I saw where you stated that he loves you but I never saw you say you love him. If you don't love him and you are only marrying him because it was arranged and tradition then I would think long and hard before you do it. If you do love him then don't start out with the lie between you clear the air, tell him you know about the affair, see what he says. In answer to your question about the distance/ if you both truely love each other the distance shouldn't matter. GL
2006-08-02 17:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but you'd have to ask him that. In the west, our values are different and "making out" is a little less of a trauma than in cultures where virginity is highly prized. On the other hand, all cultures (except polygamous ones) value faithfulness and if he is true to his religion, culture and is honest about feeling love for you, maybe he will be. You need to settle this with him though and make sure that being faithful is indeed a value he holds.
2006-08-02 17:51:59 · answer #3 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships are tough. If he's already cheated on you then he will cheat again. Find another man. You'll be better off to have someone who will love, respect, and remain faithful to you.
2006-08-02 17:50:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth can only come from him and in any country we have the freedom to lie so only he can answer that but do u think he's cheating or will in the future.If ur questioning this guy than maybe u don't really want to marry him cuz who wants to enter something like that when they have doubt,or maybe ur qustning cuz u love him so much and u can't stop thinking about him.Either way you need to really figure it out and makesure YOU make the right decision for YOU.
2006-08-02 18:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by devotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets face it! Love fades away with distance and time!
2006-08-02 17:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by ~Raju~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,i guess you should talk to him about all the doubts that you have in your mind and confron him about the fact that he didn't tell you....
and see i feel hes been genuine enough to tell you all about his past.......if you are ready for a long distance relationship then you will have to trust him and he too will have to because,trust is the foundation of every relationship,if your heart doesn't want to beileve him its always better to get out of it now rather than,suffering later!!
2006-08-02 17:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think anyone can really answer this one for you cuz no one knows this guy. As bad as it may seem, you'll probably have to wait and see what happens.
2006-08-02 17:51:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from a mans prospective, hes going to keep tappin the strange. im serious. if you value your std free state (assuming) then kick him to the curb quick.
2006-08-02 17:52:53 · answer #9 · answered by joe citizen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Please give me sincere answer:
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The fact is that CHEATERS usually always cheat.
If he cheated on you before he will cheat on you again.
What you do is your own decision.
Just expect that he will cheat on you if he has already cheated on you.
2006-08-02 18:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋