is it scary being young and getting pregnant for others?

Question

i am going to have a baby febuary 1st of 2007

Answer 1

i was only 13 when i found out i was pregnant and 14 when i had my daughter and i was never scared my now husband was always there for me and so was my family and that helped alot good luck congratulations and e-mail or im me if you have any questions or just need to talk i am very happy to help bye

Answer 2

My wife and I had a baby when we were 18, actually she was 17. We didn’t get married until we were 22 and are still very happy at 37. It is always uncomfortable, I f*cking hate it every time someone says, “You look too young to have a kid that age,” but they just don’t know a nice way to say “f*ck, you had a kid when you were a teenager didn’t you?” Our son is the best. But I think we were lucky, we worked hard and came out okay. I hope you come out half as well as us. Guys can be real @ssholes, so I just hope you have or find a good one.

Answer 3

yes it can be. I was raped when I was 12 I was pregnant and scared to death. My baby was taken from me from my parents and given away. But I am grateful that she was giving to a loving couple, who gave her a good life. I hope that you have family around you that gives you support that you need. If the father is in the picture that is even better. Please take care of yourself and that baby no matter how young you are you are going to go through some changes. Talk to your doctors about your fears, he/she will be truthful and will empathize with you, unlike our parents who tell you that everything will be OK. Sometimes we need to hear the facts. good luck to you hon.

Answer 4

I was 24 when I got pregnant, married and ready for kids and I was still scared, its really a life changing event, but in the right situation it can be the best thing that ever happened to you in the end :)

Answer 5

I take it you know for yourself if you are scared but I know that when I got pregnant at 20 my mother was scared to death for me. Everyone who loves you is probably pretty worried about you so they react the way people do when they're under stress. They bicker, fight, take poor care of theirselves, lose sleep etc. Just try to tolerate their wanting to take care of you and recognize it as worry on their part. Make sure to let them know that you know they are worried without trivializing it. It will help them handle their feelings. Quite often parents will feel that they are responsible for the pregnancy if their daughter is still a teenager and will be going through a great deal of guilt that they then take out on the girl! It's just a tough situation for everybody. Take care of yourself.

Answer 6

No not to me im 13 and have to kidz a 10 mth old and I just gave birth 4 days ago

Answer 7

to tell you the truth yes it is scary being young and pregnant.. .. and for others.. hopefully you mean that you are giving your baby to other suitable people.. .. if you do get scared talk to your doctor or even your mom and dad.. if that don't work talk to your friends mom .. they are sometimes the best people to talk to

Answer 8

Getting pregnant for others????????? what do you mean.

No. don't worry every thing will be alright. Since you are young you should consult doctor every month.

All the best.

Answer 9

at first but if you read a lot you will feel alot More confident with your self and when you have your baby it will be natural like you have always had her.

Answer 10

when i got pregant at 17 i was kinda scared but then i was bc i no i was really for it but now im 22 im totally scared more now then 4 yrs ago not bc if havin her but if wat happen after she was born with her dad and i