everybody help please real important i had sex with my best friends brother?

Question

ok me and my best friend have been friends since like first grade well she has an older brother 4 years older and hes real cute well i spent the night over there recently and we were alone my bff was in the shower we started kissing alot well weve been sorda makingout and other stuff for like a week now its like are secret relationship well last week will my friend was sleeping i went into his room and rhings got a little crazy well we did it and i thought i love him but a couple days ago i went over to her house and he came home when we were alone we kissed later that night he started talking about his new girlfriend im crushed how do i tell him and i cant tell my friend shed hate me help

Answer 1

be honest with your friend, I was in a similar situation but worse, I was the maid of honor in my best friends wedding since kindergarten, I sprained my ankle and still had to wear highheels so I got drunk at the reception to kill the pain, not sloppy drunk but euphoric, I got up got two big punch cups and filled them with beer and started talking to her older brother, and he started flirting hard, I ignored him and walked away,he followed and brought a bottle of champagne, he flirted the whole time with me after the wedding when we were she was opening gifts, I went and sat across the room he sat right next to me, again, I stayed cause my foot was iced and on the table, he was married, for ten years, I ignored him his mom and aunt were staring at me, I was looking at them not him a nd it was awkward, she was irritated with him, after the wedding instead of going to his brothers house he stayed at hers where I was, again my throbbing ankle on ice, and sat next to me, I was abiotch and asking about his wife and told him I would not sleep wiyh him, a bottle of tequila later, he helped me to my room , messaged my other foot ,went down on me and that was it, I knew she would hateme, I said no to his fine self all night until the morning and gave in, and he had never cheated on his wife before, I felt like a monster, cause he was honestly the best I had ever had, and hot looking, I told her the next morning and she looked pissed ,she thought he had raped me or something and wanted to make sure it was consennsual cause of the shameful look I had on my face when I told her, but I valued our friendship and truly had no intention of ruining it, and really did fend him off but ended up giving in, and I never give in, or submit to any man this was the first guy I allowed to pressure or manipulate his way to get close to me, she forgave me and was irritated with him not me, she saw how he was acting, but she said she did not know if she could trust me had she found out from someone else, if this is your best friend, then treat her like it and tell her

Answer 2

Now you can join the club of first class tramp. you lost your head and probably your virginity. did not any one ever tell you sex is only for a few moment's and love ain't got nothing to do with it. well young lady I will be the first to tell you keep your undies on, get a book and read about the aids virus and pray that you are not pregnant. If he told you he cared for you as a girl friend he would not have allowed you in his bedroom so quick. he obviously did not ask you in. you invited yourself in. suffer the consequences and tell your Friend before her brother call you an ugly name to his sister and tell her himself. she may understand and may not. next thing. Stay out of that house. you were very unfair to the parents are parent in that house. you have betrayed your friend and the others in that home. He means you no good and it all is not your fault. He is just as responsible as you are."don't do this again" Save your body for the man you marry"

Answer 3

Wow that was a whole bunch of words to say nothing. He used you for sex, you let him you have nobody to blame for that but yourself, you shut up about it your friend doesn't need to know. If you were actually mature enough to be having sex you would know whats up and wouldn't have had to ask this question. You've been used and played and replaced, thats what happens when kids try to play grown up games they don't understand. Now you get to hope you aren't pregnant and/or didn't get an STD, don't feel so cool now do you?

Answer 4

I hate to say it but it sounds like you were used and I would say not to tell the friend. But then youwould keeping something from her. Thats a hard question. You have had what we call a one night stand and the jerk set you up for it. You need to think long and hard before you tell her. It might be the right thing but you may lose a friend for it.

Answer 5

This is what happens when you don't keep your pants pulled up. Next time use supper glue. Having sex before you get married makes you look cheap to all guys. They will talk about you behind your back. I know this is not what you wanted to hear , but is the truth.

Answer 6

i hate to tell you this but you got what you deserve for not getting to know him better.
As for your friend, you need to let her know if you value your friendship.
Quit fooling around
If you wind up pregnant, w/ another guy like this one.
he'll leave you high and dry and the brat w/ no father and you working your *** off.

'nuff said

Answer 7

All you need is a little advice and i am a good friend and youll have it out of your head

Answer 8

Don't say anything,to,anybody.It's a mistake you made. Let it go.The only thing I can see coming out of it is Pain. Be quiet,don't let it happen again.

Answer 9

he is one of theses guys who just wanted to lay you once he had you he moved on to hunt onther,best to chalk it up to experance,there are a lot of guys out there like that,so be warned

Answer 10

let your friend know wat's up and tell her how you feel about him i expect that she will understand and she could give you better advice than any of us can ,being as though she knows the both of you so well !!!!!!

GOOD LUCK!!!!!!