2006-08-02 17:09:47 · 27 answers · asked by ~.*Strawberry101*.~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
personally i dont think so, not for me. but maybe you should discuss it wiht her see if its okay w/her. but only if you know she is completely over him, b/c you wouldnt want to hurt her, or your bond as sisters.
2006-08-02 17:14:25 · answer #1 · answered by chocoholic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot of different things to consider in that question. Do you and your sister have a good relationship? If so then you'd be risking losing that but if you and your sister aren't close then I don't think you're obligated to be overly concerned about how she feels about what you do with her ex. Are you seriously interested in the guy or are you just curious or want a fling? I don't think the kind of drama you'd be inviting would be worth it unless you're deeply smitten with the guy. Those questions are just the tip of the iceberg.
2006-08-03 00:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Winter Arcane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No absolutely not.. how would you feel if your sister dated one of your old boyfriends.. I have a twin sister and we would never give a guy satisfaction of bragging that he was with twins... Don't give your sisters ex boyfriend bragging rights that he dated sisters.. Beside neither one of you are showing any respect to your sister.. I'm sure this boy will not be around forever but your sister will be around for you forever..
2006-08-03 00:20:00 · answer #3 · answered by cinsaint1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did say "boy friend" No there is nothing wrong with it. "BUT" how would you feel if your sister dated your old boy friends? most people would not think much of you after you do it. I sure would not trust you. The what if' list is very long. What if you eventually marry one of these guy's? Family events could be quite uptight. Bottom Line is this" Blood is thicker than water. Your sister will always be your sister. The word of God states "Keep peace with all men"
2006-08-03 00:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with your dating your sister's ex-boyfriend because after all, a love relationship does not exist between them anymore. And your sister should understand you if you go out with him.
I presume that you want to go out with him. By all means, do that but there is one thing that you should consider first before you do that. You should consider the real intention of that man with you. If time passes by and you find out that he likes you romantically, make sure that he feels genuinely in love with you before you accept him as your boyfriend if you too like him at all.
There's no legal or moral law in this whole wide world that prohibits someone to go out with or love a person who has had a relationship with his or her family member. Remember this and you can just follow your heart's desire concerning that man with whom your sister had a relationship before. Good luck.
2006-08-03 00:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is your soul-mate, the love of your life, the one man above all others who treats you like a queen, and you will never meet his equal on this earth...But, sorry, I digress into a romance novel. Fact is, blood is thicker than water and the pain just ain't worth the gain.
Sorry for the cliches, but there's been literally thousands of girls in your situation, and no, he's gotta prove himself to the hardest juries in the world--your family *and* your conscience--and you've gotta be prepared to give them all up for him. And, then, if you do, and if it doesn't work out, you can't go back.
Well, maybe you can, but it will never be the same! Fling him...string him...enjoy him...but honey, don't do more! Unless she consents, of course, in which event, we need a totally different referral, don't you agree?
2006-08-03 00:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Latrice T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's way wrong. How would you feel if your sister was dating your ex?
2006-08-03 00:13:47 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i personally would not ....but it is how your sister feels to that counts....my son use to date his wifes sister and they have several arguments over this..so the sisters stay away from each other now...i do not think a man is worth losing your sister for...and i do not see how you could do it anyway...and if they were sexually involved and you are now in my opinion it is more wrong....
2006-08-03 00:16:38 · answer #8 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because that is hurting your sister and you don't want to make that mistake and have your sister put it against you for the rest of your life!
2006-08-03 00:14:26 · answer #9 · answered by Raven B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine as long as she is cool with it.
I just went to this party where this guy I was seeing was with another girl, (he didn't know i would be attending) I have the biggest crush on his younger brother. (i'm 18, younger brother is 19, and he is 23)
He ended up giving it 2 me and we have a date tomorrow!
Go For it but don't hurt anyone in your family...
2006-08-03 00:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Coxie Megan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely not!!! that's like really really wrong! i think you shouldnt date your sister's ex boyfriend because that could ruin u and ur sister's relationship. u should dump him and find someone else. i dont think u'd like it if she started goin out with one of your ex boyfriends and knowing what happend it coudl effect you miserably.
2006-08-03 00:13:59 · answer #11 · answered by curlie-ba-twirlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋