I am 19 years old. My ex-boyfriend and I had been going out for 6 years. We just broke up today and I am devastated. I keep thinking that he left me for someone else, or he had cheated on me during our time together. I dont know how to get over him and move on with my life. I am still young, and it hurts so bad to think of my life without him.
2006-08-02 16:57:28 · 7 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
For starters get involved with your interests; Or, develop NEW interests; Are you athletic? or Crafts? are you artistic? perhaps consider your career if you haven't done so already; But DO get into SOMETHING and to the point where it becomes a PASSION.
For one thing, THIS will help you get your mind off this break up that, if you don't find these diversions, may continue to eat at you in an unhealthy manner. Secondly, you may find other friends--either casual OR romantic.
I know it won't be easy.
I hope this helps.
2006-08-02 17:30:10 · answer #1 · answered by Hayseedless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh trust me it's gonna be okay!! I know your heart is broken and you just want to drop over. I felt the same way. So you go ahead and moan, groan, cry--do whatever you have to for a while (not to long tho). It will get better, you will feel better and someone better (more worthy of you) will come along--may be a while-but someone will be there. Don't rush into another relationship!! You were 13 when you met him!!! Now's when you meet "men" not your childhood sweetie!! (you'll remember him fondly 10 years from now and wonder why you were so in love). You'll never lose that feeling--but it will be different.
2006-08-03 00:14:11 · answer #2 · answered by fallingstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt for some time, but you'll find someone else. I believe everything happens for a reason and it's usually for the better in the long run. Don't settle down too young, before you experience life. Get out and have fun while you're young cause you'll blink your eyes one day and have to worry about kids and family and all that good stuff before you know it. hope this helps. good luck!
2006-08-03 00:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, believe me everything is going to be ok, my BF left me last week after a five year relationship but in my case he left me for another woman and I'm 35 years old. Yes it's hard I've tried calling him but he doesn't want to talk to me so its 3 days now I don't call him,
so hang in there girl
2006-08-03 01:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby you are so young...there are many ..many..many men in the sea for you to claim. I know it seems like the end of the world for you now but now is the time you do the things that make you happy. Such as go to college, travel, etc.
YOU CAN LIVE WITHOUT HIM!!
2006-08-03 00:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by NaijaPrincess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said, you are young. All you need do is find another one who interests you. It will be the quickest way to get over the one who left you.
2006-08-03 00:03:45 · answer #6 · answered by darkwolfslust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry your first love will be the hardest to get over! but its not going to be the one for you! you have to just think of want you want with your life and things will fall into place after that!
2006-08-03 00:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by hop along casidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋