She's on this kick where she says we have to do it every other day, and so many days from her period, and BLA BLA BLA. I say, lets have sex like 3 times a day, everyday. Then how can we miss?? How do I get her to agree with me
2006-08-02 16:37:39 · 12 answers · asked by FromTheTop 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Your wife has done some reading on the subject, and obviously you have not.
Tell your wife to learn more about how to plan her cervical and ovulation readiness.
You can find a free site to help her chart (with temps and mucous, etc) at fertilityfriend.com
Good luck. And read some of those pregnancy books.
2006-08-02 16:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by YJ 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because she's right. It takes 72 hours for your army to regroup after deployment. If you have sex every day you're only sending out a few recruits, or in other words, a few row boats and all ocean.
Its better to just not TRY to get pregnant, and have sex whenever you want to. You get pregnant when you're not trying, and you're not stressing over it. Its true. :) You can try three times a day every day, and you very well might get pregnant. But its a lot of stress on both of you to try so hard to get pregnant, instead of just letting it happen.
Oh buddy it will happen :) just chill out about it.
2006-08-02 23:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she needs to relax or it will not happen.
Second, you need to only do it once a day. This should be in the morning when the sperm count is high and the little soliers are more apt to swim.
This information came straight from my doctors lips 4 years ago just before I got pregnant with my daughter after taking Clomid (fertility pill).
2006-08-02 23:47:44 · answer #3 · answered by UOPHXstudent 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman has an orgasm during intercorse her possibilities of getting prego go up like 25%, so shoot for that one.
Also, its good not to do it every day because you need to build up your swimmers! Try to take your time, "trying" to get prego is the fun time, once she is, you wont be having any fun anymore!
2006-08-02 23:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Ask me anything! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. It is stressful for her anyways. If you love her, don't mock it. She has the best route planned out anyhow. More frequent sex will make you produce less and weaker sperm. You don't want to have people speak of your sperm like that, do you? Wimpy and few and far between? lol. Anyways, try to enjoy the sex you are getting, and love your wife.
2006-08-02 23:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by Strange question... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife is stressing over getting preg. it will prob not happen. Ya'll just need to relax and live your normal life. It is going to happen when it is meant to happen. Good luck!!!
2006-08-02 23:41:39 · answer #6 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, YOU ain't gonna get pregnant, so you can stop trying for THAT.
If you want HER to get pregnant, an orgasm once in a while might help. It also might help your chances of getting her to do it more.
PSSSST. SHE'S FAKING!!!
2006-08-02 23:41:59 · answer #7 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TARGET HER OVULATION TIME AND GIVE HER A FEW GLASSES OF WINE, YOU DRINK A FEW TOO. RELAX AND HAVE WILD SEX WITHOUT THINKING ABOUT TRYING TO GET PREGNANT. IT'S MORE FUN THAT WAY!!
2006-08-03 00:14:07 · answer #8 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to concentrate on your wife you are going to be a little more difficult, are you trying with the same man?
2006-08-02 23:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by pearl960 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no. There's enough kids in the world as it is. Adopt!
2006-08-02 23:41:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋