I have been dating this great lady I know for 4 months now and she is married
2006-08-02 16:21:51 · 50 answers · asked by ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! Dating someone who is married means you're dating a cheater...if they'll cheat on the person they promised to be with forever, they'll cheat on you. Also, why would you want someone who isn't loyal or committed?
2006-08-02 16:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by craftygirl001 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are looking for a relationship then No , it is not a good idea to date a married woman. Get away from this chick asap. She is a 2 timing tramp who will cheat on you too.Most girls in this situation will tell you their husband has caused them to cheat. No matter what she says or how she justifies it she is the one doing the cheating and she will continue to do it no matter who she is with. It is a defect in her character, a lapse in her conscience ....But, if you are like most guys and just want a little a$$, then sure ,..... go for it just be aware that you may get caught & possibly beaten or shot or worse. Keep your eyes open , watch your back and enjoy the excitement. Then use the afterglow time to convince her that her marriage is not that bad after all and wake her up to the reallity of the financial and emotional (especially if kids are involved) hardships a divorce can wreak upon a person. Send her home maybe she'll stay there. But then again if you are as good as me she'll probably keep calling...... Good luck wit it
2006-08-03 02:38:56 · answer #2 · answered by lowrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not ok to go out with a married woman at all......first off .....lets say you are married and your wife is unfaithful to you and goes out with another man.... how are you going to feel? You ARE NOT going to like abit .....you would be angry and hurt. So, just how do you suppose her husband is gonna feel when he finds out and he will find out because the truth always comes out?
Secondly does this woman have children and if she does.......do you realize you are risking hurting them as well and breaking up their home because of your own selfish needs and desires.
You are messing with a marriage and you have no business doing that..... you need to walk away now before someone and that includes you gets hurt...... because what are you gonna do when her husband beats the snot out of you for helping his wife cheat on him.
Trust me turn and RUN the opposite way and DO NOT look back.....its the best thing you can do for everyone in this situation.
2006-08-02 16:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, no. However, some people have open relationships. If the husband and wife agree it's ok, then it's no one else's concern but theirs.
Also, if they are separated or getting divorced and/or living separately there may be an understanding that they are dating other people so that might be ok.
But if they are living together, and the husband loves his wife, treats her fine and expects her to be faithful - especially if they have young children - well how could you participate in deceiving him? Next time you might be the one who doesn't know what's going on.
2006-08-02 16:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Redheadinbed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would really like to know why you would date a married woman. Are you really dating her or just meeting her when she can get away? Personally I think men marry women who are married so they don't have to spend that much money or time on her. The fact is she is the one committing adultery, not you.
2006-08-02 16:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO it is not okay to date someone that is married. How would you feel if you were married and your wife started dating someone you wouldn't like it right????? so why date someone that is married your not going to have all her time. So basically it doesn't pay.
2006-08-02 16:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by britt7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its OK, you only have to look at the millions of people who have affairs and end up getting divorced to see that its quite common.
Sexual desires do not cease just because we get married, its just like another relationship and occasionally you fancy something different.
2006-08-02 16:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the hubby have firearms ? You may get a chance to find out if he discovers what is going on. More of the lovers are killed than the spouses..........fact is your messing with fire and your gonna get burned ! Jealous husbands will beat your a** down or possibly kill you dude ! Leave it alone man !
2006-08-02 17:39:12 · answer #8 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the "if you don't get caught" however when she gets caught it's going to cost her the marriage any kids she has had in the marriage and in some cases it has cost people their lives.. If you love her then the best thing for you to do is wait till she is divorced but remember these words of wisdom.... IF THEY DO IT WITH YOU THEY WILL DO IT TO YOU..... please think about your actions angry husbands are not a good thing to deal with and everyone eventually gets caught if she wants to be with you she should file for a divorce
2006-08-02 16:47:50 · answer #9 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moral answer is no. The fun answer is yes. I agree that you must realize that people's lives could be ruined. It's a shame, but the no strings relationship is just darn near impossible to achieve.
2006-08-02 16:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋