I love this guy name Andre but after 6moths we broke up because I cheated,lied,abd decived him now he's saying lets sya goodbye forever. What do I do? Do I say goodbye and let the love of my life slip away or should I call him and tell how I feel? Help me plz.
2006-08-02 16:20:04 · 19 answers · asked by Ms.Bossy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It will be difficult to fix it. The good news is that you admit that you did him wrong. Check out the articles below and see if they help. Tell him you want to try again. See a marriage/relationship counselor to help you work it all out.
2006-08-02 16:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You probably shouldn't have lost him in the first place. He deserves someone that won't lie, cheat, deceive him. But it sounds as though you still have some sort of relationship with him, so just go out and tell him that you are so sorry and you don't expect him to forgive you, but that you do not want to day goodbye. It could be worth the try. Good Luck!
2006-08-02 16:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing is for you to give him some space, he is hurt and confused and angry. Just think what you would feel like if he did what you did to him to you.. lol sounds funny but it is the truth. Think of what you would want from him if he hurt you the same way. I'm sorry you feel like you lost him and maybe you have but it is a lesson. If you want to cheat, leave him. Plain and simple. good luck dear.
2006-08-02 16:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by trouble comes a knockin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you have cheated and lied all the trust is gone i would move on but if you really serious that this guy is the love of you life ask your self why you did what you did and talk to him if he take you back you can't start where you left off you would have to start all over and take it one day at a time
2006-08-02 16:24:54 · answer #4 · answered by ellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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I think that you need to look at your life and see if you are ready to be honest with him. I mean you admitted what you did so thats a step forward. He is probally hurt though because he feels that HE wasnt good enough so you had to go and do that.
When you do this; hopefully you will have an answer to one of the toughest questions in life. To love or to let go.
2006-08-02 16:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by wishwash06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should have thought of that before you cheated, lied and deceived him. He is doing the right thing saying farewell.. Hard lesson to learn Sweetie, but you did it to yourself. Every action a person does has a consequence, you just learned one the hard way.
2006-08-02 16:24:15 · answer #6 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him how you feel!...u better not let the love of your life slip away from you like that...cause when you go looking for someone else your gonna be looking for someone just like him and its not gonna feel right...go get your man girl!....i want you to read the lyrics to this song by chris brown...its called say goodbye...
2006-08-02 16:37:42 · answer #7 · answered by Gotta Luv It! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you cheated on him? didn't you loved him then?. Do him adn yourself a favor, let him be.. If anyhting is meant to happend with you guys, it would take time, that best thing you can do is move one.Trying to fix it now would make things bad in the long run.... MOVE ON.
2006-08-02 16:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by jayden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you don't say goodbye.....you say so long......my dad would never say goodbye cause he said that to his mom when he was young and she got killed in an accident....to him goodbye was too final.....it was never to be seen again......So long meant that you will meet again......
Tell him you were stupid for doing what you did......that you are sorry....and what can you do to show him you won't do it again...that is if you really want to be true to him...let him make the decision as to what he wants to do....don't beg....If you can't be true then find another.
2006-08-02 16:28:30 · answer #9 · answered by mom2kats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. Because that is what he want to do. What you can do is just let him go. Just to make him felt better. OR you promise to him to not lying to him anymore if you are still in love with him.
2006-08-02 16:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by RIFAN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋