ok we been friends for like about 5months or something and we been really good friends and he goes out a town for month and we still talk like everyday on computer and like couples days before he comes back he ask me out and i liked this him before we came friends and i dont know why i guess i never thought he would ask me out but ya i said no and when he came back he talk to me and last week and this week he didnt even say hey or bye when i left i dont know why we use to always talk im really confused
2006-08-02 15:53:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i never thought he would like me i thought stuff he did messing with me cause we were just friends
2006-08-02 16:00:39 · update #1
ya i do like him i always have
2006-08-02 16:04:34 · update #2
Guys are confusing? HAH!
Let's get this straight. The dude likes you. He calls and emails all the time while he is away. He gets ready to come back to where you are; He asks you out; You tell him no, even though you really would like to go out with him. You dissed him hardcore; hurt his feelings; made him think/feel that you had no interest in him. Thus, he stopped going out of his way to connect with you...and you think he is the one that is confusing? Seriously, did you expect him to take the rejection, hurt, etc. and still go out of his way to entertain you?
Furthermore, and trust me I would love to know an answer to this one...if you liked him, why did you turn him down? What kind of logic went in to that decision? What did you expect to get out of that? How did you expect him to react? I would really like to know the process that went on in your mind that came up with the idea that you should turn him down, even though you really did like him and, on top of that, you still thought he would continue to chase you!
Honestly, who is confusing here?
2006-08-02 16:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by Cing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man are man! Usually some hide their feelings...but what I think of him...He likes you..Do you like him too? So why hide the feelings? Open it up
2006-08-02 16:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by carmela24ph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but I'm having guy problems too.What can I say "You got to hate them and you gotta love them."
2006-08-02 16:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lil'A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His feelings are just hurt, if you guys are true buddies, he'll come around.
2006-08-02 15:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie_Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋