So, I was dating this girl for about two months. But then she started looking and acting like a guy( which is a huge turn-off to me). Also, she started wanting to know my every move and what I was doing every minute of the day. If I couldn't spend anytime with her,she'd get mad. If my phone was turned off because I was at work or the library,she'd get mad. So, I broke up with her and we agreed to be friends,but she keeps acting like we're girlfriends. And when I told her today that I couldn't spend her birthday with her because I'm broke and it'd be wrong for her to spend her money on me on her b-day, she called me a *****? Then after I cursed her out, she asked me why I cursed her out, acting as if calling me a ***** wasn't a big deal. Is she stalker material?
2006-08-02 15:07:43 · 6 answers · asked by ac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
May not be stalker material, but definitely not friend material right now because you were able to transition pretty easily to being friends, whereas she didn't. Maybe more time and she can be a friend but right now sounds like you need your space and that doesn't include her.
2006-08-02 15:24:52 · answer #1 · answered by Diff'rent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and so goes the gays of our lives...lol. Sounds to me like the chick is bipolar..one min it is ok for her to call u something..but then offended if you call her the same thing..like she doesnt remember just calling you that...and the phone thing...sounds like she is needy, and dependent upon you, but maybe she is really like this with everyone..and feels if she cant get you its because you dont want to talk to her, not because u maybe at the library she takes it personally. Hard to be friends with someone like that
2006-08-02 23:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she'll turn to stalking but God knows what else may come of it.
I'd say be careful. It seems to be that she is rather confused and for some reason has latched onto you making your life a living misery.
2006-08-02 19:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama drama drama...that is what your life will be like with this selfish person.She is dangerous,and will get worse.If u can't do without this person maybe some help for her might help the situation.
2006-08-02 15:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by fairie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i understand one female and one guy who have been stalked, yet only the guy mandatory to get a restraining order against loopy chick. information have suggested that men stalk greater, yet i think of the reason it style of feels any different way around is that the girls are in many cases "crazier" approximately it while the boys are greater rapidly-up violent.
2016-12-10 20:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by forgach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that's crazy you need to try and put some distance between yourself and her
2006-08-02 17:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by JR 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋