I fear that when it comes time for me to settle down, I won't be able to find Mrs. Right. (Mrs. Right to me is a fem that is out and proud,wants to settle down with a another fem,get married, share the responsibilty of baring and raising children, and grow old together.)
2006-08-02 14:57:43 · 15 answers · asked by ac 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
We all fear so much that we can't control it. I fear things too and we just have to remember that it will eventually work out. I am a very positive person and you will find Mrs. right That I am sure of, but are you still haveing the Wedding in 2011 because I'm so coming. Was ciara the stalker? I'm confused please write me and e-mail or something jamesonnikki@yahoo.com I'd love to help and listen more.
2006-08-03 04:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My fear is the reaction of my family once I come out of the closet. Some will probably accept me as I am but some will probably say I will go to hell for being a lesbian (coz my sis is a born-again christian)... So basically, it's fear of coming out of the closet.
I'm sure you'll find your Mrs Right someday... especially when you least expect it so good luck and just hang in there until u do, enjoy the ride of what we call life right now and don't stop wishing. ;o)
2006-08-03 19:56:40 · answer #2 · answered by mags 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My biggest fear is losing the people I love most..my Mom, siblings, but especially my life mate of 25 years, the one person who is truly my second (and Better) half. She has health problems that concern me greatly and it's a possibility that she could very well die before me, unless I get killed in an accident; being that I'm in a very high risk job for that. I fear that I will have trouble taking care of her in the future, being the need to work, to make money, to pay her bills and the desire to see to her daily needs side by side. Oh the nightmare. But I cannot let fear consume me. Fear is the little death...I must let my fear pass though me and over me then all there will be remaining is me.
2006-08-03 09:15:34 · answer #3 · answered by truckinotter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fears are along a totally different path. I have all of the above part except the fem! My partner is more butch than fem. And just remember...timing is everything. Everything happens in it's own time.
2006-08-02 15:03:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am scared of losing my girl. She has a kidney condition and if we don't look after it it could mean death.
I know that I want to grow old with her and without too much hassle so we have to be good now. I don't know what I would do if I lost her.
I am also scared of the fact that I might get breast cancer. There have been many scares in the family. I couldn't imagine leaving her alone on earth.
2006-08-02 19:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fear used to be that I would find the perfect man and learn that he was flawed in horrible ways. I've been down this road so many times before. . . He's freaky, which I like, but he can't keep it in his pants. He's intelligent and well-educated, but an alcoholic. Or he's intelligent, well-educated and freaky but emotionally crippled. I finally found an intelligent and wild man, but my tastes had changed somewhat. I realized in addition to those things that i wanted to have a family. I was so fortunate that the man I fell in love with eventually changed his mind and decided he would also like to be a father. I finally got everthng I wanted.
2006-08-02 16:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by Speedo Inspector 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My biggest fear would be the loss of my soul-mate. By that I mean something physical that would take her from me. We're as much in love after five years together as we were the first time I told her, 'I love you". I'm disabled and she's never complained about the extra burden that places on her. She's soft butch, but 100% the Feminine Female.
Tammi Dee
2006-08-02 15:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by tammidee10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lady there i feared exactly what you feared for 30 yrs till i found my wife and guess what i found her here on yahoo chat we were Friends like 6 yrs then one day we fell in love and now we are legally married in mass but living in Ohio and i love her more and n more every day shes my breath of air need i say more shes the soul of my soul shes the most beautiful butch in this world she loves me and trust me that's a hard task lol
2006-08-02 17:21:48 · answer #8 · answered by lady_and_lover69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poverty. I've always feared being broke and unable to get get a job, and I've been fired several times.
I have enough resouces now that this fear is slowly fading away. Slowly.
2006-08-02 21:13:43 · answer #9 · answered by smallporgies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fear losing my partner of 19 years...or of him losing me...we live our lives as a sort of a team....It'll be hard on the one left.
2006-08-02 15:41:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋