2006-08-02 14:43:01 · 19 answers · asked by neardisturbed 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Buy her ticket, drinks and food. Don't touch anything but her hands, wrists and forearms. If she tries to kiss you, go with it but don't be to eager, they hate that. Make her feel important. Talk with her about more than just the movie(her likes & dislikes). Walk her home unless she's got a ride. You're thirteen, that means you shouldn't be surprised if this thing turns out badly, but don't expect it to turn out badly or you'll wreck things before they ever begin.
Whatever you do: Don't stare at her breasts... You just can't recover from that screw up.
2006-08-02 14:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Well dont rush ANYTHING. i made that mistake on my 1st date. if u kiss make it something small but good. that way he will always be looking forward to more. if u make out it wont be as exciting down the line. u will get old faster. he will get bored with u easier and move on. also lean in closer to him..he will know to put his arm around u. (hopefully) hold his hand. just reach over and grab it. trust me..he wont mind. if he puts his arm around u then rest ur head on his shoulder. maybe if u get cold let him kno then u might end up wearing his jacket or he might wrap his arms around u 2 keep u warm. and most importantly have a good time. dress nice, wear good perfume, a small amount of makeup goes a long way. and bring mints NOT gum! good luck
2006-08-02 22:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by futuresuperstar_91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be polite. if he wants to pay for the tickets and food, let him. smile, look pretty, but not too made up. be yourself. that'w what he likes you for, after all. enjoy the movie. relax. let him know you are having a good time, but not in his favorite movie scene. if its ur first date, let him hold hands, but dont kiss yet. that may give him the impression that you either like him more than you do, or you want to take things fast. trust me, take things slow. it will be loads easier, and you will have tons of time to think about it all. dont let stress bother you on your date. focus on your man, no other men. let him know you appreciate the fact that he is there with you. when you get home, say goodbye nicely. wave if you wanna. tell him you had a great time. then walk inside your door, happy and good inside.
2006-08-02 21:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Kitteh :3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring a sweater, its usually chilly in theaters! Bring some mints, also, for if you eat popcorn. Just relax and be yourself and have a good time.
2006-08-02 21:46:54 · answer #4 · answered by Island_Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say dont be nerves cuz when you are nerves you seem to fall or trip or whatever just be your self and let him do everything, like open the door for you if he dont stand there and look stupid until he do. Good luck
2006-08-02 21:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by shayla_aka_bigbird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first if he puts his arm around u don't pull away i did that once bad idea just b ur self and laugh a lot but not like spaz out. and don't mention relationships boyz hate that. good luck hope he asks u out again!!
2006-08-02 21:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by hotrachelle1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous, don't eat very much popcorn, and make sure you don't talk through the movies. If you need somebody to talk to my e-mail is shennadog834@yahoo.com
2006-08-02 21:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by Emmie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring mints, dont bring a sweater so incase you get cold, he can hold you, buy a big tub of popcorn and reach in at the same time so you hands can touch....have fun!
2006-08-02 22:52:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just got done going there for my first date
i am 13 also.
just act cool.
kind of act girly but not to girly.
but most importantly be yourself and have fun
2006-08-02 21:57:22 · answer #9 · answered by bballchampion13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an idea. If there is a scaring part hold his hand or lean close to him. . .when the part's over stay that way. . .Good exuse.
2006-08-02 21:56:04 · answer #10 · answered by Dallas L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋