i want another baby but..?

Question

my husband dosent want to he says its to stressful my son is 18 months im 23 and am afraid of not going to be able to have kids in the future i have a lot of bad feminane problems that run in my family. what should i do to convience him ?

Answer 1

Given that you're a 23 year old mother, I'm surprised at your lack of correct spelling and almost complete lack of punctuation. Could it be that your husband wants you to mature a bit before trying to have another baby? How are you going to help your 2nd grader write complete sentences when you're barely doing it yourself?

As for convincing him, express your concerns for your ability to conceive in the future. Discuss your budget and how to work another child into that budget. Is he against having more children entirely, or just for the time being? See if you the two of you can come to a compromise. It's not fair for you to want to have a child and him be totally against it, but it's not fair for you to want to force him into fatherhood either. Best of luck.

Answer 2

adoption is a possibility later on to give your husband time to adjust to this child, and to get through the young years. you can always try later on too! consider how he feels too, and try to come to a decision you can both live with. this just might not be the time to have another child.

Answer 3

He has to change his mind on his own...if you push him and he isnt ready then you run a good chance of ruining your relationship with him. You need to tell him how you feel but also respect his wishes!

Answer 4

You should say wouldn't it be nice to bring another bundle of joy into this household. If he doesn't buy that than just say can't you do this for for me?

Answer 5

ur choices are simple. either talk ur husband into it if he denys it then move out and find another guy. its ur choice or im available =) ne time... soo just figure it out
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