2006-08-02 13:45:59 · 11 answers · asked by steven k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IF she is still emailing, the affair is NOT over. IT is time to lay some ground work and extricate yourself from this mess. And it is a real mess...she obviously does not love you as she once did..I have no idea who is to blame, if anyone. But, if this is a problem that she is having an affair, leave or ask her to do so. You both deserve happiness, and neither of you have it now. Good luck
2006-08-02 14:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may tell you its over but if she is still talking or emailing its not over. She is probably still seeing him or wants too. Give her the boot my friend and find a good women that you can trust. Ther are plenty of the out there.
2006-08-02 14:10:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is still emailing him then it is clearly not over. You need to confront her about it. Honesty is the only way you are going to get through this and she has to earn your trust back. Maybe I would get rid of the computer and change your phone number. If she wants it to work she should even consider moving...far away!
2006-08-02 14:17:58 · answer #3 · answered by vvvlambert 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she continues to email him, then the affair is not totally over. She needs to disconnect herself entirely from him and focus on your marriage and relationship. If she is not able to do that, then you might want to consider the value of your relationship and the next step you might want to take.
2006-08-02 14:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that she is still feeling this guy. If it's over, it's over. There should be no reason for her to keep in contact with him.This is something you really should talk to her about. Obviously, she doesn't care much about your feelings and how much this must be hurting you. Is there a chance that you've done something to hurt her and cause her to wander off?
2006-08-02 13:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is still emailing this guy it is not over either she still has feeling for this man or she is lonely so she is turning to him for comfort i know that sounds harsh but she would not be emailing him if she respected you
2006-08-02 13:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by karebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not willing to do what it takes to rebuild trust (like stop contacting him) then she is not serious about the marriage. I suggest you get counseling to consider your options. In my case, it took me 3 years to wise up and get out. Sorry.
2006-08-02 14:02:39 · answer #7 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plenty of fish in the water my friend.
2006-08-02 13:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by elperro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump this b itch and get yourself a real woman. this one can no longer be trusted and should be tossed out with the garbage
2006-08-02 14:13:22 · answer #9 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're saving all the emails for your lawyer. Alimony is a b*i*t*c*h!!
2006-08-02 13:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋