suicidal thoughts and they won't go away....help?

Question

lately I've been thinking about just ending it all! I mean there's this guy and yea he's my world but there's just WAY too much **** going on at home and I just can't handle it and I want to go through with it sooo much but there's the guy whose holding me back. I really don't want to hurt him please help me stop having these thoughts

Answer 1

Hey, I've been there. Tried to take my life three times, obviously never made it. I'll tell you I'm living a silent hell, but seriously, get some help. It is no answer and really you never know what is in the future. You sound young, so you got plently of time. Relax, forget about any relationship. Dont worry about anything but what is good for you. Write a journal for yourself everynight. Seriously, it may sound dumb but it helps, after you write you feel better, cry, and the next day write again. Sometimes after you keep writing about your problems over and over, you start to realize that you can really deal with it. Get some help, talk to a good friend, check yourself into a good hospital for observation for 48 hours and get away from everybody. Seriously, your a good person just dealing with alot of emotions right now. :You need to talk please e-mail me cauz I can relate to you.

Answer 2

Have you felt like this before and it passed of course??? Seriously, and since the last bout with suicidal thoughts you've had some really good times and experiences truly worth living for, though it may not seem like anything is worth living for right now??? Anyway.. you are obviously reaching out on here, and so I think you are taking the right step towards getting help instead of turning inward and making a mistake because your brain is not functioning properly right now.

Don't make a big mistake, one you cannot reverse in this one horrible portion of your life. Please take this one step further and reach out to a doctor, counselor, or hotline even. If you walk into an ER and tell them these feelings you're having, they will get a counselor to speak with you and you will get whatever help you need. Seriously, don't do such a horrible thing to your friend's and family members. It's hard enough to lose someone, but when someone takes their own life, everyone finds a way to blame themselves, and also hate you for what you've done. Just don't make such a mistake, this will pass, even though you can't imagine that now.

Answer 3

Come on!! Dont just end life for that! There are so many great things you can do in life. Have you ever felt that heart warming sensation when you give someone needy something? Go to family members theyll always love you unconditionaly, and remember happy little moments with them like your birthdays and the first time you ever realized you were in love. Start a new hobby, and as you get better you start gaining self esteem. Before going to sleep try to speak to yourself and that will liberate some feelings, write a poem about your life, and listen to songs on the radio. Every little thing you can think of has something good in it stored for you, dont make yourself unhappy, just star a new life if you need it.

Answer 4

Suicide is a perminent solution to a temporary problem. Don't do it! First of all it is selfish, and cowardly, not to mention weak minded. If things are too overwhelming you need to talk to someone to help you cope with everything. If there is too much junk going on in your life, then get rid of some of it. Maybe it's time to get a job and move out of the house, or maybe you just need to find someone to talk to. I don't want to sound like some religious freak trying to force something on you, but I have to say that when I was going through times like that, it was the the ability to just pray to God and pour out how I felt and what was bothering me to Him that got me through it. You don't have to go to church every sunday to have a relationship with God, just try talking to Him, at first it might feel silly but if your in your room by yourself, whos there to be embarassed about? Get yourself a good old fashioned bible and start reading the second part, the new testiment, especially Romans. If anything it will be a good history book. I'll be praying for you. Don't let life overwhelm you, things will get better. Life is what you make it. Make the right choices and have a strong mind and you will get far in life.

Answer 5

If you are thinking about ending it all. Where would that leave your family. You would not only be hurting yourself but you would hurt every loved one in your family. If it is way to much for you to be with this guy end the relationship it is not healthy for you to be thinking these thoughts sweety. You have so much to live for GOD has put us all here for a reason And beleive me JESUS makes no mistakes.. He Died on the cross for our Sins sweety. GOD is not going to give us something he knows we cant handle. So Beleive this GOD knows as a woman you can handle this if you need help go to a counselor, or go to a Pastor, Minister, or priest. Or talk to a best friend Someone you feel comfortable talking to and lay out what you are feeling. You will feel much better when you confide what you are feeling the pain is getting built up and you have to let it out. SCREAM at the top of your lungs and ask GOD for his Guidance beleive me he hears us and he helps us. I was in the same boat one time in my life. Now I am a true Christian woman In love with My GOD and my husband of 8 years if I would have ended my life I wouldnt have the 2 beautiful children I have and I wouldnt have my loving Husband. I have so much to live for now and God is using me to serve a purpose. So Sweety talk with someone because you are beautiful and we need you here even though I havent met you I will keep you in my prayers and if you want to talk just e-mail me and I will talk with you for as long as you want. GOD BLESS YOU SWEETY ANd I am waiting to hear from you

Answer 6

I've been there and I've done that. I've had sucidial thoughts before but, I always think about how my mom, my dad, my brother, my family, my friends, and my boyfriend and how they are going to feel If i would something so horrible like that. They would be destroyed. I know life is very hard and its not always how we want it to be. But, you have think of positive thoughts and that will bring positive actions. I am 23 yrs old and I've been suffering from depression for the last 8 months. The last 2 month I've been doing great. They wanted to put me on meds and I refused too. I started thinking positive and not always blaming myself when things happen to me. And try to surround yourself around ppl who have a good sense of humor, ppl that are positive, ppl who like to have a good time. And try to keep your mind occupied when you dont put your mind on something you start having all these negative thoughts. it happens, it happens to me all the time. Do yoga, go running, read a book. life isnt that bad, we make it bad. Enjoy life! Good luck and best wishes!

Answer 7

USA National Suicide Hotlines

Toll-Free / 24 hours / 7 days a week

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
1-800-SUICIDE
1-800-784-2433

National Hopeline Network
1-800-273-TALK
1-800-273-8255

Answer 8

I don't know how to stress enough that... tomorrow is another day. You cannot see where you will be ten years from now... today. Today may be ****. But you know there were days that were better than you imagined. I can't know or even imagine what you are going through. But somewhere, down deep inside you, there is something you can grasp that will see you through whatever you are going through. I've seen your message and my thoughts are with you. I'm sure you will find that there are others who will share the same concern for you. It is all we can do. Hopefully, our combined thoughts and what you find within yourself will carry you through this tough time.

Answer 9

there are a lot of people that can tell you what it is that you neeed to do but it doesn't sound like you need that right now, you need a friend, someone who will listen to you with out judgment and just be there for you. i hope that you find that person soon. and i will be glad to lend you a shoulder to lean on if you need it.

Answer 10

You need to seek help immediately. You are going through something that is not normal. Please don't even think of taking your own life. There are always solutions to get through this type of ordeal. It sounds like your depressed. Please talk to someone you are close too and get help! I will pray for you!