2006-08-02 13:17:06 · 47 answers · asked by Blondie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sometimes, that's just the way it is. The majority of my true friends in the past and even now have been women. I'm not gay, and I've had guy friends, but sometimes at certain points in your life, the guys you are around aren't friend worthy or your personallities just clash. And visa versa, sometimes only the guys in you life are friend worthy. I've been hapilly married for 3 years, and have never even thought about having an affair with one of my girl friends, because they are just that, friends. I guess, according to my wife I flirt with them alot, but I guess thats just cause were friends and we are comfortable enough with each other that we can tease each other about things and talk about stuff.
I don't know what your boyfriends like but coming from a guy, just cause he has girlfriends doesn't mean he's going to cheat on you.
I just like women and sometimes they are just better company than some guys.
2006-08-02 13:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by stingray4540 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Oh, I used to date a guy who's friends were all girls. Just accept it I guess.
What I learn was if you accept it, you could get along much better, and if you didn't, you and your boyfriend would get into a few fights over that. I may be proven wrong, but that's what I think and learn.
I got along pretty okay with them cos I knew he wasn't interested in them and me and the girls still could go shopping together and all. And they use to give me pretty good advice cos they knew him longer than I did, so it help my relationship a little.
Unfortunately, we broke up over something I'm not going to say, but till now I'm still in contact with the girls and him and are still friends.
I just read the answers given to you, most of them said that he was gay and you should dump him and all. A guy hanging around with a lot of girls doesn't make HIM gay, I mean, if you were to say that, I would say more that a guy who hangs around with OTHER GUYS are gay right?
But anyway, seriously, this is up to you totally, but if you know you love him, and he loves you, whether he shows it or not, trust your heart okay sweets? (And it's not stupid.)
2006-08-02 16:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by cowgoesbaaa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's no longer extraordinary in any respect. i'm 17 and function under no circumstances had a boyfriend because of fact i haven't discovered somebody i in my view like yet. that's solid which you assert no to those which you're no longer drawn to. a number of human beings at my college will date somebody they dislike just to instruct off that they've a boyfriend. They act like they are nevertheless in junior extreme. you're only 15, so which you nevertheless have lots of time to discover a guy. you're saying that putting your self out isn't you and that's ok, yet how will a guy understand you like them in case you under no circumstances supply them any tricks? i think of in case you like somebody you will desire to objective to flirt slightly, in case you're uncomfortable, attempt getting your acquaintances that might actually assist you communicate over with him. It additionally won't harm to attend because of fact a number of guys a protracted time 14-sixteen are immature and jerks and are not waiting for a dating.
2016-12-10 20:24:27 · answer #3 · answered by forgach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand when that happens......lol.......I went through that last year...... I think it can be very uncomfortable when they have girls as best friends......you can never tell anyone who they can and can't be friends with but don't you just want to tell him to drop the other bitches and find some guy friends?.....lol.....but I think you need to tell him that you don't like the fact that he has other girls as close friends .........cause sometimes they will go back and tell the other girls the problems in your relationship and the girls will have a perfect opportunity to get your man
2006-08-02 13:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been with my man for quite some time now we have been married for almost a month it will be a month on the 7th but what im getting at is most guys chose to hang out with girl cause they cant get along with guys the same with girls i know me my self have very few girl friends and it only because i cant stand most girls they are just to bitchy for me... and that constant talk about guys just drives me insane... you get what i mean it not a big problem as long as he is loyal to you and you can trust him then there shouldn't be a problem with it... make him a deal tell him that as long as he gives you the same amount of time that he gives all his girl friends then he will be allowed to hang out with them his self without you around and if he invites you to go out with him and his friends then do it.. that's something special there not many guys will take their women on dates with all their friends..... my advice to you is to just get used to it and trust him if you cant trust him then end it.... that's really all the advice i can give hope this works...
2006-08-02 13:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sure of where you stand. Are you just another friend or are you his one and only? Young guys like to keep girls on the line in case one needs to be comforted. Trust me on this.
2006-08-02 13:21:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy... Because more than less likely he's not a stupid boy, and will actually understand your problems.... Yes, there is a chance that he's a playboy, but you didn't say he flirts with them... If he's genunily friends with them, it is a good thing...
2006-08-02 13:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that your boyfriend is loyal to you. Then talk to the girls, and them that it makes you a little uncomfortable, and then talk it out, and tell them what bothers you the most.
2006-08-02 13:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by nicole30822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust him?
I wouldn't worry about it if you trust him if there are things in his past or he has a rep for them not only being his friends then who cares right....
in the end nothing compares to you, you are always better than them even if you don't think so:)
2006-08-02 13:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by BlondieJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they're his friends. You can't change anyone, you can only change yourself. If he's loyal to you, you won't need to watch out for them, but you might want to just in case. It is probably fine though, he most likely is friends with them because of who they are personality-wise, and gender shouldn't matter.
2006-08-02 13:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by Jumpin Monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋