i kind of messed around and made up a fake myspace profile to talk to my fiance and flirted with him and stuff so then i decided to just delete it and tell him i know this is very immature but i was just EXTREMELY bored at work and wanted to try something new so now after i told him he said he doesnt want to sleep with me tonight and hes mad at me what should i do now? we never argue
2006-08-02 13:10:07 · 32 answers · asked by drama951 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What the Heck. Why is he even mad at you? It's not a big deal. You were flirting with HIM not some random guy! I don't see how in any way this guy should be insulted! I'm not going to tell you to make a big deal out of this but he's really the one in the wrong. I think you shoud apologize to him and then maybe lie and say you had to make up a new one because your boss would recognize yours and that you were thinking about him so much that you just HAD to talk to him. I don't know what you told him already but if you can somehow make it sound that you couldn't wait to see him then you might get a better result. My answer. Flattery Works.
2006-08-02 13:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by CoNfUsEd? 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's called entrapment, I guess he would be mad but is that why he's mad or did you flirt with others too? Did he flirt back with you? If so, who should be mad at who? If he did flirt back, he's mad because he feels guilt.
Did you know that most of the problems in marriage these days start because of the internet? It use to be over finances, now it's the internet.
If you were extremely bored at work, why weren't you doing some work instead? There is never a job where you can't find something to do, you're being paid to work, not flirt on the computer with guys. Is mad because he's the guy paying you to do a job that you're not doing?
You don't sound like a very ethical person to me, you trap your fiance, and you play on the internet while you're being paid to work, what else are you doing?
2006-08-02 13:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by nellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Drama,
Your fiance is EMBARRASED, dear. He thought that some chick was flirting with him, and it was you...Well, what you did was sooo immature--but it was funny :)
He'll get over it, and who cares if he doesnt want to sleep with you..he's sopposed to marry you before he does all that anyway, so who the hell is he to make it seem like he's doing YOU a favor by sleeping with you? .....
Anyway, did ge flirt back??? If he did, I dont know honey--maybe you should make up another profile and try again to see how faithful he is, just kidding ;)
Take Care and Peace
2006-08-02 13:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just lost respect for you.
Being bored is not an excuse.
You wanted to try something new?
Try someone new maybe.
It was a really lame thing to do.
You basically toyed with him aka messed with his mind, just because you were "bored at work." Oops sorry about that! lol
Sounds as good as it is.
Say your sorry, that there is no excuse, that you plead dumb and to forgive you.
Even if you do, he will still respect you FAR less then he did before.
2006-08-02 13:17:28 · answer #4 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally f-ed up by telling him what you did - now he's going to have some trust issues with you.
You didn't say whether or not he flirted back, so what you should do now is still up for debate - if he was cool and didn't flirt back and you know you can trust him, you have some MAJOR appologizing to do. If he flirted back then it's a free for all. Good luck.
2006-08-02 13:13:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, I am not sure i understand... you made a fake myspace profile to cyberseduce your fiancee? He flirted back, for real. He's probably angry cause now he thinks you have tried to test him. Did he pass your test? Testing is probably not the best foundation for a healthy marriage.
2006-08-02 13:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by tharedhead ((debajo del ombú)) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting married? get used to it. Seems like since i got married, one of us is mad at the other for SOMETHING at least once a day. haha. ohhh sad. sit down and just tell him that you were just playing around, and that you thought he would think it was funny. Ask him why he is angry about it and that you just don't understand what you did wrong. Going to bed angry sucks. It really does help if you work things out b4 bedtime.
2006-08-02 13:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like he's hot.
I'm a family law attorney, and I am sure that neither of you are really ready for a relationship.
Just have fun and concentrate on yourself. If you're bored or need attention, it's available everywhere, or get a good vibrating stick. . . .
2006-08-02 13:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by sochiswim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We men are simple creatures. If you want to turn things around right now, fix your face, put on some sexy lingerie, walk into the bedroom, tell him once again you are sorry and start to go down on him while continuing to tell him you are sorry. He will forgive you.
2006-08-02 13:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by kako 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah not the right thing to do but why is he really mad, is he trying to keep something from you? This is a best trust issue it sounds to me. Talk things out.
2006-08-02 13:15:09 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋