I would say I am not all that popular but I am friends with everybody but I never get invited to party and dont know why
2006-08-02 13:03:00 · 13 answers · asked by king of all kings 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I am also good friend to everybody I am never mean to anybody
2006-08-02 13:12:05 · update #1
Perhaps it's because you are the "star athlete." By that I mean that you're "big man(woman)" on campus and people may think that you wouldn't accept an invitation from them anyway because they aren't big at anything.
The idea of throwing a party and inviting a bunch of kids (if your parents will allow it) is a good idea. See if it works.
2006-08-02 13:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was kind of the same way in school. There are one of two reasons, and probably both.
1) They don't think you're a "fun" person
2) They're pretty sure you're not going to drink or take drugs
That means, in their feeble little minds, that since you don't drink or take drugs, that you're not a "fun" person.
Sucks, but what I said is pretty much true. I wasn't popular in school either, mainly because I was too much of a "goody two shoes". A few people can pull off being popular and being nondrinkers, but not very many.
2006-08-02 13:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because being a "star athlete" is not an automatic invite to the finer things in life, pal. Perhaps you need to look at your behavior and make some changes.......obviously others notice what you do not.......need I say more????
2006-08-02 13:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being invited to parties isn't everything. But the party thrower probably isn't close enough to you. Ask a friend who is going to ask the host if you can come! :P
2006-08-02 13:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAKE YOURSELF MORE SOCIALLY AVAILABLE, THROW A PARTY OF YOUR OWN, INVITE EVERYONE, THEN WHEN THEY HAVE A GREAT TIME, THEY WILL THINK TO INVITE YOU TO THE NEXT ONE.
2006-08-02 13:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by JUST ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur probubly quiet and unfriendly. speak up!!! have a party for you and don't invite the people who didnt invite you
2006-08-02 13:07:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well probably becas a lot of people think that your gonna think your to good for the party or that your to stuck up or they might be jealouse
2006-08-02 13:10:24 · answer #7 · answered by freemyhomies 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cause everyone knows u ,doesn't mean your their friend, maybe you need to get to know them better instead of counting on popularity
2006-08-02 13:07:27 · answer #8 · answered by a8enyne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe people just think your TO good.....im not saying that you should start slacking or anything like that.....im just saying maybe you should stop saying "i am friends with everybody"....... cuz dude ur not friends with me and im part of "everybody".......
2006-08-02 13:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by KATIE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
invite your self or speak up.
2006-08-02 13:05:19 · answer #10 · answered by M2J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋