my best friend is moving in a month. i love her very much (im in love). she has already told me she's not but that i am her best friend and loves me. i cant have a best friend that i love and also living so far. so ive decided to say good bye now. im not saying anything to her or doing anything with her becuase i feel it will just be harder when the time comes to say good-bye. (actually im ignoring her not to be a jerk but just becuase i think i will heal faster, even tho i know its hurting her) --should i have taken advantage of our last month and have an amazing time and enjoy our unbelievable friendship while it last? or am i doing the right thing? labor day is coming too soon ;(
2006-08-02 12:59:41 · 9 answers · asked by canadaboyjake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ur doing the right thing stay strong
2006-08-02 13:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard for you but don't do something you may regret. Listen, we all have been there (well, not all) but most of us. Its no fun losing a good friend that is moving and to add insult to injury, she doesn't feel the same way as you do for her. So, be sure you are able to say everything you need to say, how much she means to you and how much you will miss her. You never know what the future will bring. Keep in touch, I really think we all need our old friends when we move. Good Luck!
2006-08-02 13:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the end, you guys are friends and you should spend time before she leaves. I know you want to try and forget her soon, but by ignoring her you'll just torment yourself with not being able to see her again. You can't take the days back, so i would take advantage of them. However, just follow what your heart tells you to do. If you think it will hurt you less to say goodbye now, just go for it, but make sure you at least tell her why..
2006-08-02 13:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say you have an unbelievable friendship when your not being very friendly by ignoring her, if you were such a good friend you would be making the most of your time left with her.
2006-08-02 13:07:22 · answer #4 · answered by hedgehog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to spend the time with her that you have then after she leaves you will have time to get over her maybe since you are so hooked on her you are not realizing the other girls around you that like you . i would make it an amazing month that way she will have something to remember you by .. Good luck
2006-08-02 13:06:47 · answer #5 · answered by nicks girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the times you have together. If she has an email, be sure to email her as often as you can. Long distance relationships are so romantic!
2006-08-02 13:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by nicole30822 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u should have fun with her a spend a lot of time together u like her u need to hang out and don't be hard on your self every1 comes and goes
2006-08-02 13:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the perfect occasion to just TEAR HER CLOTHES OFF WITH YOUR TEETH! Ravage her like the man you are. Then she'll know just exactly what she means to you. Try it. It works.
2006-08-02 13:13:20 · answer #8 · answered by Chaosman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say do something with her to say so long for now... if you are truely good friends... time and distance will not affect it. Just do what works for both of you.
2006-08-02 13:04:32 · answer #9 · answered by angel007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋